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June 2nd, 2013 @9:27 am  

Hey Shay
Run don’t walk away from this guy, change your phone number to unlisted, get off your social media and don’t take any communication from this loser and find a real man who is grown up and wants a real relationship with you.

John Wilder sex and relationship blog

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May 28th, 2013 @2:09 pm  

Hi Shay.

Definitely forget about Mike. It does not matter that he wants you back or whatever is going on with him. Keep your ground, respect yourself, and find someone else. If you are not sexually being satisfied by a guy, either help him along by telling him what you want or find someone who sexually satisfies you and respect you. I am not sure sex will just get better on its own. Sometimes even though we like someone or are attracted to someone, the sexual chemistry is just not there. If you like sex a particular way and they don’t like doing it or just are not good at it, that won’t change. you can give directions and maybe he will be come a better lover to you.

Robbie Lee, author, mentor, realist

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
May 27th, 2013 @1:25 pm  

Dear Shay,

Mike is bad news. Move on. Don’t communicate with him in any way. Don’t get pulled into his immature drama. It doesn’t matter if he will truly change (doubtful) because too much damage has already been done. Don’t talk to his mother, his brother-in-law, or anyone else about him. He is not good for you so he should not be in your life. Yes, it’s that simple.

I suggest you try being single. You need to figure out for yourself what you will and will not put up with in a relationship. For example, do you want to be the kind of person who spies on your partner’s Online and phone goings on? You should be able to trust whomever you’re with.

You also need to figure out what pleases you sexually. It’s not up to your partners to read your mind, it’s up to you to tell them what it is they need to do that gets you off. You can only tell them if you know yourself.


Suzanne White Montiel

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