Kate Asked:
“The love of my life has a girlfriend. Basically me & him where together for about 2 years on and off. He did a lot of messed up things to me. Lied, cheated. We would stop talking for months & then start talking again and so on, I fell deeply &
madly in love with him and always forgave him because of the way he’d make me feel. We would always be laughing together & he would be there for me through anything. He’s 2 years older then me and way more mature. Basically we had stopped talking for about 3 months & a week ago I saw him. He followed me, said hi, and got my number. I was so happy. I knew he had a girlfriend but didn’t care. I saw him 2 days ago and we hung out for a bit, We talked about a lot. He said the girls he cheated on me with ment nothing to him at that time and that he really did love me and was just with them for sex. We didn’t kiss or anything because he is very respectful now and says he dosent cheat anymore. We did flirt and he said I had gotten very pretty and that I was An amazing girl, we discussed our messed up relationship and he said if he had the chance to fix things he would And that he was young and immature. Before leaving he said to hit him up to hang out whenever. I don’t know what to think, I still love this kid so much & I have a feeling he still loves me. Hes been with his Gf for 2 months & she’s very pretty but I know she dosent care for him like I do. He hasn’t called me ever since that day and I have the urge to call or text him but I know I shouldn’t. Should I wait for a miracle to happen or should I just call him and ask him to hang out atleast as friends? I feel so desperate. no other Guy makes me as happy as he does. I understand him And he understands me. I love him so much & I’ve tried moving on and hobbys And other guys but nothing works. I know he’s the one. Help please”
- Kate (18, Hialeah, Florida)
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Hey Kate
He is NOT THE ONE, he is a liar and a cheat and a player and he is just using you as a back up girlfriend to get sex from when he can’t get it from other girls.
You need to move on and find a guy who is only interested in you, quit demeaning yourself and degrading yourself to chase after this guy. He truly is not worthy of you and you deserve better. But of course I suspect you won’t like my advice and will just ignore it. I wish that you wouldn’t it will save you a lot of heartache and please stay on birth control, having a kid with him is DEFINITELY NOT THE ANSWER!
John Wilder
marriagecoach1@yahoo.com
marriagecoach.com sex and relationship blog
Author of a soon to be published book on Amazon Kindle on January 10 entitled: SEX EDUCATION FOR ADULTS, SECRETS TO AMAZING SEX AND HAPPILY EVER AFTER TOO
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