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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
July 9th, 2012 @10:53 pm  

Dear Jay,

You seem to be in a relationship, albeit a nearly sexless one. Do you want to continue that – hoping it will change in 2 years – or do you want to move on?

Why do you capitalize “more”?

It’s up to you to figure out what you want and need out of a relationship.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
sewmontiel@yahoo.com

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July 7th, 2012 @11:36 am  

Jay I can’t add anything to what Jason already said
John Wilder

marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

marriagecoach1.com sex and marriage blog

Author of a soon to be published book on Amazon in January entitled:
Sex Education For Adults, Secrets To Amazing Sex and Happily Ever After Too

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July 6th, 2012 @9:19 pm  

Jay,

What does YOU being in school, have to do with HIM not MARRYING you? If he wanted to marry you, your school situation wouldn’t stop him. And even if it WOULD, it wouldn’t stop him from DATING you. The truth is, he doesn’t WANT to be with you right now. Whether it’s because he wants to “live it up” for the next 2 years, or because he’s over you, or because he wants to mess with you without the commitment, it DOESN’T MATTER what the reason is. The POINT is, he’s LYING about his reason and he doesn’t want to be with you NOW. Which begs the question, if he’ll lie about WHY he can’t be with you, who’s to say he won’t lie about WHEN he will be with you? Then you will have waited (and wasted) 2 years for NOTHING!

If anything, maybe you should live it up TOO for the next 2 years. ANYTHING can change between now and then. Forget waiting. If someone wants to be with you, they won’t wait. Period. I don’t care what ANYONE else tells you. So if he won’t be with you, focus on YOURSELF. Stop letting him toy with your emotions. Hell, perhaps find ANOTHER guy you might be interested in. In two years you may not even WANT this current guy anymore.

JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com

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