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September 2nd, 2013 @8:49 am  

HI MIke.

You need to figure out what you want. You went back to her likely because you loved her, but obviously put yourself in a difficult situation. Either accept that she will not tell her parents and you may never be enough for her and at some point she could leave you again, or end the relationship. Having been together 8 years sometimes people get that “7 year itch”, so perhaps she got that out of her system. Pay attention to your interactions and the quality of time and intimacy that you spend together. Is she supportive of who you are and the things you like to do? Remember, communication and honesty is the key to any relationship.

Robbie Lee-author, mentor, realist

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
September 2nd, 2013 @12:59 am  

Dear Mike,

You should never contact her again. This chick is bad news. You know it, but you want someone else to tell you. She’s bad news. She is not worth your time or energy. She is messing with you. She is manipulative.

Cut her out of your life!


Suzanne White Montiel

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September 1st, 2013 @10:40 am  

Hey Mike:
You answered your own question by saying: “like an idiotn I went back to her”.

She is bad news, run don’t walk away from this woman. Hasn’t 8 years and her cheating on you enough to tell you, that she is broken and you can’t fix her?

John Wilder sex and relationship blog

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