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mygif
April 8th, 2012 @7:38 am  

Sneha,

Maybe you should secretly record your next interaction and play it for your husband. That way he knows exactly why you’re so upset around her. At that point, he’ll either say something to her (or his brother) or keep you & her apart so you won’t have to see her much anymore.

JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com

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mygif
March 4th, 2012 @10:42 am  

hey Sneha
Ignore her game playing. Be pleasant and respectful and distant. You can’t make her or feel anything nor can you make your husband make her do anything. Relax and forget it.

John Wilder

marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

marriagecoach1.wordpress.com sex and relationship blog

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
March 2nd, 2012 @10:54 pm  

Dear Sneha,

This is one you might have to just endure.

Be honest with your husband and let him know that you feel disrespected by his brother’s wife. Tell him that you’d rather not socialize with her or be around her and tell him why.

Of course she is your husband’s family, but you are his wife, and you need to feel like he is on your side on this issue, whether he understands it or not.

In the mean time, since you probably do have to put up with her, be civil and nothing more. Don’t try to befriend her, and don’t go out of your way to be mean to her. She is to be endured and nothing more.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
sewmontiel@yahoo.com

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