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2012
Darrin Asked:“My Partner says she likes her foreplay a little rough, I have very little experience, can you please give me some tips etc…”
- Darrin (44, Melbourne, Victoria, Australia)
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Darrin:
This is a very common fantasy among women. The key is to arrange with her in advance a safe word that makes you instantly stop if it gets more than she can handle. Don’t stop unless and until she tell you to stop.
Now a lot of women like for you to pull their hair roughly, smack them kind of hard on her butt cheeks, and a favorite of every woman that I have ever slept with is to undress her doing foreplay and then once she is stripped down to her panties, hook your hand inside the waist band of her panties and yank very hard all at once and literally rip her panties off. Women tell me that it simultaneously scares them and arouses them.
Most women like to be taken roughly by a strong self confident man once in a while. Sometimes they like to play out a rape fantasy, like slapping them in the face and throwing her down on the bed and ripping all her clothes off.
Discuss with her the kinds of things that she fantasizes about and give it to her.
John Wilder
marriagecoach1.com marriage and sexual blog
Author of a soon to be published book in January on Amazon entitled
Sex Education For Adults, Secrets To Amazing Sex and Happily Ever After Too
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Darrin,
How “rough” does she want it? “Pull my hair” rough or “sharp objects” rough? lol There is a difference.
If it’s the first, do things like grab her hair to yank her head back & passionately kiss her, either on the mouth or the neck. Do some hard nibbling or light biting if she likes it rough. (There are some more EXPLICIT tips I could give you, but I won’t type those here, for obvious reasons. We have to keep it clean.)
If it’s the second, and she requires sharp objects like knives or whatever (and you’re SURE she’d WANT this) then you can incorporate those as well. (Again, ONLY if you’re CERTAIN that’s what she’s into.) The main thing you want to do is show dominance, and stay in control, while still giving her the type of pleasure she needs.
Again, if you’d like more tips, or the explicit ones, feel free to email me:
JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com
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Dear Darrin,
Talk to each other. Have a safe word. Know what a safe word is. Read up on the subject. Start with SM 101 (http://www.amazon.com/Sm-101-A-Realistic-Introduction/dp/0963976389) by Jay Wise.
Sincerely,
Suzanne White Montiel
sewmontiel@yahoo.com
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