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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
January 5th, 2013 @8:37 am  

Dear Pooja,

You need to take some responsibility in this. It’s not just your neighbor having sex, it is you having sex with him. Unless he’s been raping you – and if he has I urge you to report him to the authorities – you are a consenting and participatory part of the sexual congress that has been ongoing for at least a month.

Every person has sexual needs, you should not be embarrassed that you need yours fulfilled. However, you seem to have an agreement with your husband that your marriage will be monogamous, something that is unreasonable when the two of you aren’t together for two-year, or longer, stretches.

You can continue to have sex with the neighbor, hoping he’ll be discreet not only around your husband but also around your other neighbors. This is likely to go very badly. To be clandestine, an affair should take place nowhere near home with someone with absolutely no connection to you or your husband. Neighbor not the best idea.

While masturbation is not a substitute for partnered sex, it can satisfy sexual needs, so I suggest you step up your masturbatory habits in an effort to tide you over until you next see your husband.

Or hope your neighbor can be discreet.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
sewmontiel@yahoo.com

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January 5th, 2013 @8:04 am  

I feel for you. You state it like he forced himself on you and you were the innocent victim. Why would you leave your door unlocked when you are bathing and walking around semi naked?

I feel for your sexual needs. Can your husband not come home periodically and satisfy you. Why can’t you go with him to where he is working?

You need to come up with better solutions than screwing your neighbor.

John Wilder

marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

marriagecoach1.com sex and relationship blog

author of a soon to be published book entitled: SEX EDUCATION FOR ADULTS, SECRETS TO AMAZING SEX AND HAPPILY EVER AFTER TOO

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