Jane Asked:
“Im in love with my bestfriend. She’s a girl. She fell in love with me as well. We dated for a year but we constantly fought. I hurt her bad. I lied and treated her wrong. But i love her. Im just stupid i suppose. I always broke up with her but i took her back everytime. She’s broken up with me as well but she also always took me back. But she recently broke up with me and isnt taking me back. She has a boyfriend now. We’re friends and i told him i like her but i didnt tell him we went out. Our relationship was a secret. We still hook up and tell eachother that we love one another. We recently got into a big fight and now shes acting as if she doesnt care for me. Im trying to act that way as well but im just hurting. I dont know what to do anymore. I dont want to let go. Im losing faith in everyone. I know im young but please. I need help. With everything. With anything.”
- Jane (17, Riverbank, CA)
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Jane, I have a few questions:
1) Why did you treat her so badly?
2) Why did you lie to her?
3) Why did you hurt this girl?
In short, Why would you continue to HURT a woman you claim to LOVE?
Please, answer those questions for me.
In my opinion, neither of you are mature enough to handle a real relationship. The FEELINGS are there, yes. But your emotional maturity level is at an all time low. (Both of you.)
Think about it. Do ANY of the following statements sound like mature ones to you?
1) “I wanna be with her, but I keep breaking up with her.”
2) “After I break up with her, I keep taking her back.” (Why break up at all then?)
3) “I love her, but I always lied and hurt her and treated her wrong.”
4) “Oh I have a boyfriend now (her) but I still cheat on him with Jane, a woman I don’t even wanna be with.”
I mean, I know you guys are in high school & all, so you’re not gonna be THAT mature, but come on. If you wanna be in a relationship with someone, all the silliness has to STOP!
They say that girls mature faster than boys. Well, PROVE IT!
JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com
Direct. Honest. REAL.
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