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September 2nd, 2013 @8:58 am  

Hi Sara.

I have had women who are not gay or even bi, have an attraction to me (I am a woman). I have attributed this sometimes to them being attracted to my soul, meaning we have met in another life time, so their soul is attracted to my soul. Having an energy attraction towards someone is sometimes just unexplainable and sometimes it doesn’t have to be explained.

The tough part is approaching her, of course. If you can establish a friendship outside of the gym, that may be the safest way for now. Perhaps you are suppose to learn something from her and this is the opportunity to learn; not that you’ll be able to actually know what that is either. Since she is married, it may not be for a “romantic” encountered. Perhaps it was just for you to learn to be open to the idea of being with a woman.

Here is an article I wrote awhile ago. I do not recommend you pursue married women either but gives but this may open you up to other ideas:
http://advice.lovedetour.com/rlee/the-bi-curious-female-guide-to-fulfilling-your-fantasy.html

Cheers,
Robbie Lee-author, mentor, realist
http://www.robbie411.com

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
September 2nd, 2013 @12:34 am  

Dear Sara,

Ask her out for something outside the gym, such as coffee. Talk to her. Figure out if you’re truly attracted to her, or simply admire her for her gym skills.

If you find you are attracted to HER, then broach the subject on one of your away-from-the-gym outings. She may respond poorly, in which case you should let her know that you are not embarrassed and you will continue to attend her classes. She may respond positively, in which case you should let her know that you are not embarrassed and you will continue to attend her classes.

Being attracted to someone is not a bad thing, no matter the genders of the people involved.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
sewmontiel@yahoo.com

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