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Nosaj Tasimara Said,
December 8th, 2013 @7:59 am  

Actually Suzanne, if you read my story carefully you will see that I have avoided reading anything much into what is going on between me and my boss. I have just described everything in as much detail as I possible could and asked the experts to read into this and tell me what they think is going on. I have clearly and openly admitted that I am attracted to my boss, and I have clearly said that I AM NOT SURE if she is also attracted to me, so how could I possibly be reading Way more into this?

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
December 8th, 2013 @12:20 am  

Dear Nosaj,

I think you’re reading WAY more into the interactions than actually have any meaning. You want to keep your job? Then leave it alone.

You’re attracted to her; wait for an OVERT sign on her part before you act. Otherwise, just be professional.


Suzanne White Montiel

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December 4th, 2013 @3:17 pm  

Hey Nosaj
Yes she is attracted to you but NO you should not do anything about it. You are MARRIED with a couple of kids who will be devastated if you divorce their mom and go with this woman.

That is the first thing, the second thing is never mix business and pleasure.
In other words absolutely don’t have any kind of relationship with a woman from work, boss or not. It can cause you to lose your job.

I realize that you probably won’t heed my advice but I stand by it.

John Wilder, sex and relationship blog

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