Nik Asked:
“I love a girl a lot & I want her in my life. but she only consider me as her friend. its hurts me that much it ruining my life from last 7 months. we talk to each other always, i kissed her, hug her but she didn,t. It confuse me may be she loves me also. we are at 2 different place we talked with each through phone. now its hurting me that i m going to lose her. sometime she get irritate on me. its hurt lot she don’t love me back because whenever I ask her she love me or not she always say no.but she say sometime she feel like that but she control that. By nature we are different. but I love her madly & it hurt me always.what can i do.may I wait for her? or stay apart with her? its very hard & painful to lose her. I feel emptiness.plz help”
- Nik (25, Bangalore, Karnataka, India)
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Dear Nik,
Move on.
The best way (if there IS a way) to get THIS girl (and I stress, THIS girl, not ANY girl) to MAYBE change her mind about you is to focus on other women. Enjoy your life, date other girls, and treat THIS girl LIKE A FRIEND. You hear me?
Let me say that again: Treat this girl you love like a FRIEND ONLY.
No more declarations of love. No more begging her to like you. No more being intimate. Treat her like one of your MALE FRIENDS. You got it? When she asks how you’re doing, say “Oh I’m good. My girl and I just went & saw (whatever) movie. It was great!” CASUALLY MENTION your other girl. Do NOT make it a big deal. Eventually, (if she cares) she’ll ask more questions about her, or hint at you and HER trying to be together. It’s up to YOU if you decide to go for it or not. Good luck.
If you need some help on how to do this smoothly, email me.
JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com
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