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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
July 23rd, 2013 @1:51 pm  

Dear Andy,

Buddy, you need to move on. Do not tell her fiance about your relationship. Just move on.

There are plenty of women who aren’t engaged, go date one, or several, of them.


Suzanne White Montiel

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July 21st, 2013 @3:03 pm  


Is this an ARRANGED marriage? You said she “has” to marry that other guy. But she can always break off the engagement unless it’s an arranged or set up marriage.

If it’s an arranged marriage, you could get her in SERIOUS TROUBLE (maybe even killed in some cultures) by showing the guy proof of her cheating with you.

If it’s NOT an arranged marriage, that means she’s CHOOSING to marry this guy (and stay engaged to him instead of ending it). Which means she wants him more than she wants you. You can’t change that. You can either continue to be her boy on the side, or you can end things with her. Those are your choices. Because I highly doubt shattering her engagement to this other guy is going to make her want you.

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July 21st, 2013 @8:50 am  

Andy. walk away. that is ridiculous. I dated a girl who had a girlfriend, that didnt know about didnt end well for me.

Good luck

Robbie Lee, author, mentor, realist

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July 19th, 2013 @5:44 pm  

She is cheating on her fiance and if you got her to break up with him and be with you, she would cheat on you. Find a girl who only wants to be with you and leave this girl forever.

John Wilder sex and relationship blog

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