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January 19th, 2013 @3:02 am  

Symone,

John and Suzanne pretty much said it already, but I’ll add my 2 cents anyway:

If he’d cheated on you, would you trust him completely after that? Or would part of you be wondering whether or not he is (or will be) doing it again? My guess is you’d be unsure. You’d WANT to trust him, but you would NOT be 100% certain that he wouldn’t cheat again. So, that’s how HE feels.

Now, do I think it’s right that he checks your phone like that? No, I don’t. But I understand why he’d want to. And if you truly have nothing to hide anymore, you wouldn’t care.. For that matter, he could have his OWN secrets in his phone. You just haven’t found them yet so the focus is on YOUR dirt. You never know who can be trusted anymore.

In truth though, your relationship will not last like this. Him checking your phone, you cheating, him not trusting you, it causing a strain on you both, you wishing you’d have your privacy back? Yea. All of these negative things will lead to the destruction of your relationship anyway. So why prolong the agony?

JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
January 5th, 2013 @9:00 am  

Dear Symone,

You two should break up. He doesn’t trust you, and isn’t likely to anytime soon. He’s invading your privacy, making you feel even more trapped, which can lead to more cheating.

Break up now before the two of you spend years of distrust (on his part) and shame (on yours) together.

Then I suggest you reconsider what kind of relationships you want to be in. Perhaps monogamy isn’t for you.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
sewmontiel@yahoo.com

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January 5th, 2013 @8:27 am  

Symone
You are kidding right. You cheated on your boyfriend but want to maintain privacy? Do you know how immature you sound? Why did you cheat on him, you have not told us that? If you really want to regain his trust stop cheating and let him check your phone any time he wants to or just cut him loose and let him find a better women than you.
John Wilder

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Author of a soon to be published book entitled: SEX EDUCATION FOR ADULTS, SECRETS TO AMAZING SEX AND HAPPILY EVER AFTER TOO

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