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August 20th, 2012 @8:52 am  

Hi Elena.

Well you both have feelings for each but what you are asking can only be answered by him. You are both in other relationships and it is not reasonable to continue given those parameters. You should ask yourself how you feel about your current partner and why you are willing to risk that for someone who is also in a relationship. Stalking someone to see what is going on in their relationship is dangerous; it keeps you hooked in. You need to suck it up and just let it go and maybe be respectful to your current partner.

Good luck. Robbie Lee
http://www.robbie411.com

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
August 18th, 2012 @10:27 am  

Dear Elena,

You need to get a grasp of English with an emphasis on pronouns and tenses. Your question was very difficult to read.

The smartest thing for you to do is to block him on your phone, stop looking at his Online statuses, and focus on your present relationship. You already know this, but you wanted us to tell you what you’re doing is ok. It is not. It is dishonest and sneaky and not fulfilling you emotionally.

What you like about the guy is the drama of being sneaky. The thrill is not about him, but about the situation of clandestine meetings, secret phone calls, etc. Be mature and stop it.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
sewmontiel@yahoo.com

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