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March 2nd, 2013 @8:46 pm  

Hey Jewels
This guy is suspicious and accusing. It will only get worse if you get married and likely to escalate to him hitting you and beating you. Run, don’t walk away from this guy.

John Wilder

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
March 2nd, 2013 @3:47 pm  

Dear Jewels,

It is not your job to make up for all of your boyfriend’s exes. It’s his job to be emotionally and mentally ready for a relationship. He’s not doing his job.

Break up with him. Let him know that if he gets his jealousy in check that you MIGHT consider getting back together with him.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
sewmontiel@yahoo.com

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March 2nd, 2013 @5:13 am  

Jewels,

When someone says they will change, or do better, it’s almost an impossible promise to keep. Why? Because we, as humans, are creatures of habit. Your boyfriend is paranoid and insecure. That’s who he is, as a result of past relationships. And because of that, the accusations will keep coming. You can tell him a million times that you’re being faithful, but he’ll still be worried.

The only thing I can tell you to do (if you won’t leave him, which you should) is to tell him, “Mike, you can’t keep punishing me for the last girl’s mistakes. I understand your ex(es) may have cheated on you, but that’s not ME. And if you can’t TRUST that or BELIEVE that, we don’t need to be together. I’ve done my best to show you I’m a faithful girl, but you keep on accusing me, even after you say you’ll stop. If you keep it up, I’m leaving. And then you will have lost the one girl who actually WAS faithful to you.”

That should fix things, at least for a while. If it doesn’t, it’ll be time for you to leave.

JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com
Direct. Honest. Real.

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