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May 2nd, 2013 @7:31 am  

Hey HS
My question to you is why have you not already cut this guy off? Do you lack self confidence to maintain an in person relationship. I agree with my colleagues here and say to ditch this guy and find someone in person in your area.

John Wilder sex and relationship blog

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April 30th, 2013 @10:13 am  


You deserve to be treated better by the guy you are with and he is not very mature sounding. Cut him off and move on to find someone who treats you better.


Robbie Lee, author, mentor, realist

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
April 29th, 2013 @10:44 am  

Dear HS,

You have a a strictly online and phone relationship with this guy. It’s not “real,” meaning you don’t interact in person. The fact that he doesn’t want to meet you or your friends is a definite indicator that this guy is squirrelly and not to be trusted.

The two of you are not a couple. My suggestion is to cut off contact with him and put energy into fostering real, in-person, face-to-face relationships with potential friends and romantic partners.


Suzanne White Montiel

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