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August 3rd, 2013 @1:18 pm  

Well it could be that he found someone that he likes better. I say move on and don’t look back.

John Wilder sex and relationship blog

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August 3rd, 2013 @7:44 am  

hi. i think it is mature of him to think about whether to continue or not. if he is too busy because of work, it is reasonable, especially if he is trying to advance in his career and make something of his life to a level of comfort that he desires for him and his future family etc. if you love him, be patient. we all end up where we are suppose to in the end. everyone is brought into our life to give us opportunity to learn.


Robbie Lee, author, mentor, realist

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
August 3rd, 2013 @1:19 am  

Dear Pauline,

This guy wants a friendly, not romantic relationship with you.

You get to decide if you want the same from him. It’s that simple. If you want to be friends then do so. If you feel hurt by his actions – that you want romance and he doesn’t – then I suggest moving on and not bothering to be friends.

If, on the other hand, you agree that your relationship would be better friendly than romantic, then keep in contact and continue to be friendly.


Suzanne White Montiel

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