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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
July 22nd, 2013 @10:59 pm  

Dear Enyapt,

Cut off all contact. You two are not good for each other, mostly because you’re both acting like children.

Stop it.


Suzanne White Montiel

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July 21st, 2013 @2:09 pm  

Dear Enyapt,

Here are some things you don’t seem to understand.

#1: This guy is a liar.
(He lied about how long he’d been separated when you two met.)

#2: The guy doesn’t know what he wants.
(He wants to be exclusive one minute, but the next minute it’s “too soon.”)

#3: You don’t owe him ANYTHING.
(You’re explaining why your ex is at your house, despite the fact that this guy is not your man, and is making out with other girls in front of you.)

Truth be told, you BOTH are acting like a couple of TEENAGERS. (Yes, teenagers.) All these games you guys are playing are pointless. Why are you doing it? Where has it gotten you?

You ignore his calls, then message him the next day. What for?
He tells you he’s getting serious with a girl, but tells you to call him a week later? Come on.

You’re 41 years old. I’m guessing he’s around that same age or maybe a little younger. Why are you guys acting like you’re in high school? When you start behaving like adults, you will be happy. Until then, you will continue to be stressed.

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July 21st, 2013 @9:14 am  

Hi. well you say you accepted his friendship. So maybe keep with that and see what kind of friend he is. There are many opportunities to learn from situations that we encountered. Perhaps you will learn something important about yourself through your time with him. Maybe don’t go it to it with an expectation of the outcome and just be friends, for now.

Good luck,

Robbie Lee, author, mentor, realist

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July 19th, 2013 @5:39 pm  

Hey Enapt
Why do you like this guy. He is a player and wants you to be exclusive but he does not want to be. And besides he is just divorced from his wife and he wants to play the field. What is in this for you? I do suggest that you drop all contact with the guy and you probably will ignore this advice to your own detriment. You need to find a guy who is emotionally stable and available.

John Wilder sex and relationship blog

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