Khan Asked:
“I have gone through breakup, I was blamed a lot. I add description.
Can any one make me clear, why it was happened?
My fiancée has broken up with me; we were in relation for one and half year. Everything was fine but when I started to plan for marriage, things started to be out of my hand. She was asking to wait for two years as her family was not convinced but I was not agreed. Then she told me either to wait or to break up? I agreed to wait else then to breakup as she was loving and caring me, so much.
Then she told me that she loves someone else, not me. I tried to convince her that why you didn’t told in the beginning of our relation? She was convinced and told me that she was lying she loves only me. Then I tried to convince her family for marriage after one year but they were not ready, also they refuse to break up.
At last she breakup by saying that I have lost her trust. How? She told her family that I was texting and calling her and this was very painful for her. Also she told them that she made her mind very difficult for me since beginning but now she can’t continue.
My question is that
1. If she was not committed then how she told me thousand times that she loved and cared me? And I really felt it.
2. If she committed then why she blamed me a lot that I was in hurry and I spoiled the relation. Why she told everything (secret) to her parents and left me.”
- Khan (25, Dammam, Saudi Arab)
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Dear Khan,
The only person who knows why your ex behaved the way she did is your ex, and she may not be completely sure of her motivations.
Take the experience as a lesson learned and get on with you life, without her.
Sincerely,
Suzanne White Montiel
SF Sex and Relationships Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner
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