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-dhitt Said,
April 17th, 2010 @8:35 pm  

Of course you should be take note if she’s playing with another guy’s hand…

But concerned? That’s for lesser males. You know, nice guys. Guys who *should* get the girl but never do…

Jason Love is right when he says you need to make her focus on you. Here’s a easy way to begin… whenever you give her something take something away. It’s a simple little game and should be done in a very teasing and playful manner…

For instance: you say: “It was fun hanging out with you today.” Giving her something (a compliment)
You must now saying something like, “I just hope no one saw us!” (with a smile or laughter) Took something away.

You need not take the thing away that you gave… example:

“It was fun hanging out with you today.”

Then she waves bye and you give her a little playful shove as if you were saying (get out of here!)

You gave something and then took something else away. (and always in a fun and playful way)

Start there

How to Woman

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
April 11th, 2010 @1:56 pm  

Dear Nathan,

Why not ask to do something with her on the weekends? Doesn’t that seem obvious?

You should not be “worried,” you should simply realize that this girl is a physically affectionate person. Touching hands is a way to express affection, which isn’t necessarily of the romantic variety.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
SF Sex and Relationships Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner

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mygif
April 11th, 2010 @8:30 am  

Hey Nathan,

Yes, you are over reacting about her playing with a guys hand. Its okay, just means you really like her. Girls do that kind of stuff though. She is obviously pretty popular and you certainly don’t want to make her feel pressure. So just take your time and get to know each other. Everyone seems to be in a rush about relationships. Thing back in the days of “courtships”. Court your girl; it will make her feel special. As far as what to do when you are with her, find out what her favorite things to do are and do some of those. If she is reading a book, maybe read it so she will have someone to discuss it with. Find out what her favorite foods are and maybe plan a picnic lunch. Since you have limited time with her make each time really special, I’m sure it will keep her wanting more.

Cheers, Robbie Lee
http://www.Robbie411.com

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April 10th, 2010 @4:37 am  

Talk to her before/after class, flirt with her IN class. Make her think about you even when she’s not supposed to. Tell her you wanna go to _____ (anyplace) on a certain day, and if she WANTS you, she’ll be happy to do it. Beware for a possible EXCUSE though.

As for the other guy? Pay him no mind…for now. Don’t even mention it to her (You DON’T want to seem insecure or paranoid) Just keep an EYE out, and see if their “flirtation” escalates. If it does, THEN it may be time to worry. But as of NOW, you need to focus on making HER focus on YOU!

By the way, if her FRIENDS are always able to see her, why aren’t YOU? Hmmm. You might wanna think about that, man.

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April 9th, 2010 @9:30 pm  

Hey you could start by asking her to sit at lunch with you. Could you see her before home run? Why can’t you go over to her house on the weekend or meet her at the mall? Put your thinking cap on man and man up. You sound immature for your age. Man up and take charge. If she is at all interested, she will respond to a strong self confident man. You don’t sound like that guy and until you can become that guy, you stand little chance with any girl.

marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

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mygif
April 9th, 2010 @5:25 pm  

If you a priority in her life, she will find a way to spend time with you. If she is a priority in your life, you will find a way. Where there is a will, there is a way. If neither of you makes time for the other, then you don’t really want to spend time together. It’s that simple.

As for playing with another guy’s hand, who knows what it means? The bottom line is that both of you are FAR too young to be anywhere near mature enough to take any of this hormone-induced drama seriously.

Anthony Hernandez
http://www.theenlightenedsavage.com

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