Beth Asked:
“I’m in a long distance relationship with my girl for almost 2 years and 3 times she has told to get the home ready she was moving to me. Everytime family members on her side either get sick, go to hospital, or pass away. I have spent so much money and have given so many things away to make room so now all i do is wait. She is caring for her ex and I know about this but he plays on her with the kids is she ever going to leave. She is so unhappy but having problems trying to transfer her job too. What can I do other then wait this out? The one thing now is the phone calls are alot less and I don’t hear from her but she tells me less then 2 weeks ago that I’m the love of her life and that I have her heart. I have tried to send gifts all of the time to her and her kids and support her as much as I can because we live in different towns. her town is not gay friendly at all. Is there anything I can do? she is very close to her family and tries to save the world type of thing. with all of their problems but I feel I’m on the back burner with this. Thanks”
- Beth (54, Kentucky)
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Hi Beth
Unfornunately it is up to you to have a conversation with your gf! She is stuck for whatever reason and may never make that final move to be with you? Long distance relationships are tough, realistically you ‘ll never know what her life is like apart from you? She is choosing her reality and has kept you waiting long enough…the choice is now yours to accept what is or move on to find someone who can and will committ to you and your dream of the happily ever after. When we love our women so much our vision can become clouded? But you can’t rescue her! She has to rescue herself!
Good Luck
Gina Landeau
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