Axel Asked:
“I have difficulty in maintaining relationships. After certain time i feel like changing my girlfriend. Is it normal or I expect Something from my relationship which i havent discovered yet??
After getting into relationship i start feeling pressure. at the same time when i am not in a relationship i am desperate for a company. what is the meaning of this psychology and why is this happening?”
- Axel (22, Pune)
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Dearest Axel,
This distinction you are making is to be applauded. So many men get into relationships when what they seek is companionship. They succumb to all the seduction and trappings of the feme fetal to avoid loneliness yet feel smothered by the ultimate demands that await after the glow has dimmed and the passion has given way to the reality of life’s routine. I can tell you this however, that all relationships will at some point stare in the face of the day to day but it is the one who illuminate something special even in the ordinary, and you realize your interest in the person doesn’t not wane nor wax as the moon but rather deepens and that alas you are not only willing but eager to stay. I say no need to analyze rather to realize that you are learning about yourself and about what separates a good relationship from a GREAT one, that at one time or another afflicts us all. This some would say is the true litmus test for those special someone’s, the ones who remarkably show us the real freedom and gift in commitment. My advice, just say no until you know-.In the mean time you may want to spend some of that time alone getting to know what about being alone scares you so much~ Blessings!
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