Douw Asked:
“I lost my Job 7 months ago. Money wise it was getting tough.We decided to go to cape town where we can stay and eat. She had to work her notice and come to me. A week before she was supposed to come down, but I could not get hold of her.The Monday morning she phoned me and said to me that she slept with this other man and it’s over between us.We are not married but we were making plans to do so. We have a kid together. I love her other kid as my own and brought him up as my own. I truly love her too. She is my wife to be and the mother of my kid. Now a month later she moved in with him. It’s my wife and my kids. I can’t take it any more. She says that she loves him now and she did not even love me. But I know that it is not the truth. WHAT CAN I DO TO GET MY WIFE AND KIDS BACK? She is 1700 km from me. She doesn’t answer when I phone her. There is no contact to all. Please I need your help and my wife and kids ….I’m a desperate man!”
- Douw (34)
Rate This Post:
Did you like this article? Submit it to your favorite social bookmarking sites:
Dear Douw,
You cannot make her be with you. She has made it crystal clear that she does not want to be in a relationship with her.
I see your only recourse at this point to do what you can – through the courts – to be a good father to your child.
Sincerely,
Suzanne White Montiel
SF Sex and Relationships Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner
Like or Dislike:
0 
0