Rob Asked:
“about two months ago, i went out with this girl for few weeks (btw we’re both 19) and it seemed to be going well until she told me she ‘wasn’t ready for a relationship’. so we broke up and sort of drifted apart and stopped speaking. then suddenly, i get a text from her last week asking if i wanted to go out for a drink with her at some point ‘only as friends at the moment’ and i said yes. this has confused me though because by saying ‘at the moment’ it implies that she still wants a relationship with me. thing is, i don’t know how to approach this situation, do i go and just be friendly with her or should i try to let know that i still like her?”
- Rob (19, Birmingham)
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Rob,
Go as friends. She at no point said I want to be with you. So respect what she is asking and don’t make more of it then what it is. She seems to be not sure of her feelings for you. But at no point should you straddle the fence waiting for her to make up her mind either. Move on, your 19! there is a whole world of women out there. Don’t get caught off guard by one. If she wants to be with you let her tell you! don’t assume anything. Live your life, have fun. Girls will always be around! Take care.
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