Comments on: Ask Our Relationship Experts: She said I’m too clingy and jealous! http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-she-said-im-too-clingy-and-jealous.html Expert advice to get your relationships back on track Mon, 26 Jul 2010 21:02:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jason Love http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-she-said-im-too-clingy-and-jealous.html/comment-page-1#comment-1076 Jason Love Sat, 30 Jan 2010 02:08:05 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4657#comment-1076 She's not ready to be with you. The fact is, she wants to meet guys, have fun, go out, have sex, etc. She's not ready to be tied down yet. I can guarantee it. Now, have you guys TALKED about this? Have you DISCUSSED what you want? Maybe you should TRY. Also, how do YOU know it was another guy she was texting? If you were driving, and BARELY even able to SEE her phone, how do you know it was a GUY? Did you just get that "feeling"? Either way, you're GONNA get jealous, because ur gonna think somethin's UP. You're gonna think she's talking to other guys in a way that she SHOULDN'T be (which, she may BE) so why even PUT yourself through all that drama, until you're FULLY ready to HANDLE it? JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com http://www.TopNotchAdvice.webs.com She’s not ready to be with you. The fact is, she wants to meet guys, have fun, go out, have sex, etc. She’s not ready to be tied down yet. I can guarantee it.

Now, have you guys TALKED about this? Have you DISCUSSED what you want? Maybe you should TRY.

Also, how do YOU know it was another guy she was texting? If you were driving, and BARELY even able to SEE her phone, how do you know it was a GUY? Did you just get that “feeling”?

Either way, you’re GONNA get jealous, because ur gonna think somethin’s UP. You’re gonna think she’s talking to other guys in a way that she SHOULDN’T be (which, she may BE) so why even PUT yourself through all that drama, until you’re FULLY ready to HANDLE it?

JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com
http://www.TopNotchAdvice.webs.com

]]> By: nicole_eliise_coleman http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-she-said-im-too-clingy-and-jealous.html/comment-page-1#comment-1062 nicole_eliise_coleman Wed, 27 Jan 2010 01:10:06 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4657#comment-1062 Hi, I think your a nice guy, but your analyzing this whole way too much. If your not together then your just friends. And you picking and probing every little thing will eventually push her away. Take things as they are, you like her yes, I realize that but it seems to be more serious with you and more laxed with her. I suggest you get your feelings in check. I hate to see you hurt over her. You travel and have the ability to meet so many wonderful people. So I would'nt get so hung up on her. Not saying she is'nt a wonderful person, but the world is also full of some really great people. You cant't mold this girl into what you want her to be. So accept her as a friend. And take it from there. But I suggest you keep your options open and in doing so you can find out what you truly like about a woman. Your a talented individual and has a lot going on for yourself at a young age so enjoy it and everything and everyone will fall into place when the time is right. Hi, I think your a nice guy, but your analyzing this whole way too much. If your not together then your just friends. And you picking and probing every little thing will eventually push her away. Take things as they are, you like her yes, I realize that but it seems to be more serious with you and more laxed with her. I suggest you get your feelings in check. I hate to see you hurt over her. You travel and have the ability to meet so many wonderful people. So I would’nt get so hung up on her. Not saying she is’nt a wonderful person, but the world is also full of some really great people. You cant’t mold this girl into what you want her to be. So accept her as a friend. And take it from there. But I suggest you keep your options open and in doing so you can find out what you truly like about a woman. Your a talented individual and has a lot going on for yourself at a young age so enjoy it and everything and everyone will fall into place when the time is right.

]]> By: Suzanne White Montiel http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-she-said-im-too-clingy-and-jealous.html/comment-page-1#comment-1057 Suzanne White Montiel Sat, 23 Jan 2010 09:34:51 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4657#comment-1057 Dear Matt, You need to determine for yourself how much time you want to spend with a partner, how trusting of your partner you want to be, what you should be texting to your partner, and whether you're "too clingy." You are simply not ready for a relationship with this girl, and possibly not with anyone right now. You cannot make someone like you, or want to spend time with you. Jealousy and being clingy comes from your own insecurity. Work on yourself, the only person over whose actions and feelings you have any control. When you truly feel that you are a person worthy of another's time and energy you won't feel jealous and you won't act like a clingy child. Sincerely, Suzanne White Montiel SF Sex and Relationships Examiner http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner Dear Matt,

You need to determine for yourself how much time you want to spend with a partner, how trusting of your partner you want to be, what you should be texting to your partner, and whether you’re “too clingy.”

You are simply not ready for a relationship with this girl, and possibly not with anyone right now. You cannot make someone like you, or want to spend time with you.

Jealousy and being clingy comes from your own insecurity. Work on yourself, the only person over whose actions and feelings you have any control. When you truly feel that you are a person worthy of another’s time and energy you won’t feel jealous and you won’t act like a clingy child.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
SF Sex and Relationships Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner

]]> By: John Wilder http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-she-said-im-too-clingy-and-jealous.html/comment-page-1#comment-1043 John Wilder Sat, 23 Jan 2010 02:05:24 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4657#comment-1043 You need to learn boundaries, but she does too. You probably are clingy. But it is not clingy to be out with the girl and be upset that she is texting some other guy. Tell her that if she is going to be out with you, she needs to be out with you and tell her to turn off the damned phone. If she can't do that cut off communication with her. You need to moderate your time with her and date other girls as well instead of investing everything in her. You both need to grow and mature. You need to learn boundaries, but she does too. You probably are clingy. But it is not clingy to be out with the girl and be upset that she is texting some other guy. Tell her that if she is going to be out with you, she needs to be out with you and tell her to turn off the damned phone. If she can’t do that cut off communication with her.

You need to moderate your time with her and date other girls as well instead of investing everything in her. You both need to grow and mature.

]]> By: Anthony Hernandez http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-she-said-im-too-clingy-and-jealous.html/comment-page-1#comment-1040 Anthony Hernandez Sat, 23 Jan 2010 01:49:45 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4657#comment-1040 Neither of you has the slightest idea what a healthy mature relationship looks like because neither of you is truly an adult yet. So quit trying to make something that isn't there. Have fun, have sex, with her and anyone who will have you (just be careful not to get sick or make babies). Go out and enjoy life and use your short youth to travel, explore, discover, and figure out who you are and what matters to you in life. Then, when you're 30 and have figured out how to be an adult, then and only then consider something serious. Until then, life is too short for this drama. Anthony Hernandez www.thenlightenedsavage.com Neither of you has the slightest idea what a healthy mature relationship looks like because neither of you is truly an adult yet. So quit trying to make something that isn’t there. Have fun, have sex, with her and anyone who will have you (just be careful not to get sick or make babies). Go out and enjoy life and use your short youth to travel, explore, discover, and figure out who you are and what matters to you in life. Then, when you’re 30 and have figured out how to be an adult, then and only then consider something serious. Until then, life is too short for this drama.

Anthony Hernandez
http://www.thenlightenedsavage.com

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