Bill Asked:
“My wife and I have been together for 17 years (5 years dating, 12 years of marriage).
10 years ago, my wife and her friend got really drunk. Her friend and I kissed briefly. I do not remember but I took my wife’s word for it. Ever since then, our marriage has been rocky and she brings that situation up in every fight.
She has never cheated on me before and since that incident I have always been loyal, My wife and I have sex but fight all the time. We just started marriage counseling.
My wife is an accountant and it is tax season. She has a client and does his taxes. She has done his taxes twice in 2 years.
Her client began emailing her under a fictitious name and told her that he is a client of hers and has a crush on her, she told him that she was married with a 9 year old son. He persisted with small talk, lets be friends, etc. She did not remember him until he sent her his photo. Our marriage has been rocky lately. We fight, she told me that she still has feelings for me but not the love she used to have for me. She told me that she has been chatting and emailing him everyday but refused numerous requests to meet him because she did not want to hurt me. My wife and I both have good jobs, we are not rich but we make a combined $130,000/year, have two nice cars, house etc. We have been falling behind with our bills because she likes to spend money.
I asked her last night if part of her wants to see him, she said “yes”. She also told me that she wants our marriage to work.
She told me that this man that is interested in her is well off, makes over 500k per year and has asked her to be his mistress. He would date her, spend money on her etc. He is 44 and she is 39, not your typical sugar daddy thing. He is going through a divorce. She just told me that she is so confused and cannot believe that she is interested in being his mistress. He told her that he would take care of her in everyway while she is married. We chatted about it and I just felt hurt. I want the marriage to work but I cannot believe she is even thinking this way. I dont know what to do.”
- Bill (39)
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Hi Bill
Ask your wife what is going to happen when said sugar daddy gets tired of her and looks for his next conquest? It sounds like you might still have a chance at the marriage but you “Both” have to be all in? In this day and age it is far too easy for someone to catch the interest of someone who might feel like their life is not as exciting as to used to be. The fact that she wants to continue to beat you over a small indiscretion, is just an excuse for her to open the door for someone else. all women like to be romanced, flattered, courted, etc… if you want your wife then fight for her! Being a mistress might have a financial appeal but she will never be happy or secure in something that “Is just a good time, not a long time”. I hope that for both your sakes, you take the time to communicate and try to figure out a way around all this drama.
good luck
Gina Landeau
Hello Ms heartbreak, I’ve been expecting you!
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