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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
July 10th, 2010 @5:13 pm  

Dear Emma,

As a parent you probably didn’t appreciate being told how to parent, especially by people who don’t know the whole story.

That being said, it probably wouldn’t hurt to have an open, honest, non-accusatory conversation with your son. Keep in mind that your grandson may be exaggerating and/or feel particularly victimized because he’s a kid.

Good luck.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
SF Sex and Relationships Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner

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July 10th, 2010 @3:37 am  

Dear Emma,

This is a touchy one. If you speak to your son, you run the risk of alienating him and losing access to your grandson, leaving him in an even more vulnerable position. I don’t have enough information, e.g., what your relationship is like with your son or with your grandson’s mother, what your son is otherwise like, etc., to give advice in this difficult situation. My suggestion, therefore, is that you get the advice of a local professional before you say or do anything that may result in loss of access to your grandson. And, of course, be the counter force in your grandson’s life by assuring him that he’s wonderful just the way he is.

Good luck.

Shela Dean
Relationship Coach, Speaker & Bestselling Author
http://www.ShelaDean.com
http://www.FrequentForeplayMiles.com

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July 9th, 2010 @4:41 pm  

Emma:

Normally I don’t recommend butting in but in this case it sounds as if verbal abuse is going on. I suggest talking to your son when he is relaxed and not stressed. Tell him what your grandson said and tell him that it is easy to sometimes take out frustrations on. Tell him how devastating it is to be verbally humiliated.

If the problem persists it might be well to call child protective services. It does not sound like the bahvior of a well respected physician. There may be emotional or psychological issues that need to be dealt with.

Blessings on you and yours
John Wilder

marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

marriagecoach1.wordpress.com blog

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