Inamess Asked:
“A couple of years ago, 2.5 to be exact, my girlfriend discovered pornography in belongings that were stored at the storage facility, as I had recently moved in with her, and had no room for my stuff. I had no knowledge of her discovery, as she decided to go through my belongings without my knowledge. Trying to discover dirt on me, I guess. This did not surface immediately, as it took about a month for her to confront me about it. I was honest, told her that it had accumulated over the years from friends who had moved on. She didn’t believe me, accusing me of purchasing these items. This went on for months, until I finally lied, and said I bought them all. This didn’t change anything, and I finally told her that I had lied about buying the videos, hoping that it would put an end to this. So since I’ve been caught having the items in my possession, it’s been a never ending argument with her over the years. I’ve since ended friendships with my female friends, as she believes male and females CANNOT be friends, as this may lead to a relationship, I no longer hang with my male friends, because she believes they may steer me in the wrong direction, and now she’s accusing me of going to strip clubs during my work day. Not to mention we received SPAM in our joint email account, and accused me engaging in some sort of relationship with this individual. It was quickly difused, as we received something vary similar a day later, from a different addressee. My only freedom right now is coming to work, and home (prison). HELP!”
- Inamess (36)
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Dear Inamess,
Yes, you are in a mess. Break up!
She doesn’t trust you and doesn’t want you to have a life outside of prison, right? Uh, that certainly doesn’t sound like a nice, fulfilling, loving, trusting relationship to me.
The first sign of trouble was that there wasn’t room for your things when the two of you moved in together. That meant there wasn’t room for you in her life, only room for a male person whom she wanted to do exactly what she wanted. Not much of a relationship.
You would be happier single, wouldn’t you? You would be happier with a woman who trusted you, who didn’t mind a little porn, who had room in her life for you, who understood that people are individuals with individual friends and interests.
Break up.
Sincerely,
Suzanne White Montiel
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