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mygif
March 30th, 2010 @8:28 am  

Hi Meena

Why waste your time on someone who doesn’t have a clue? Though your relationship might have started good? It is now heading toward an end. I would not bother fighting or discussing money issues when obivously his brains have now gone to his muscles? He is enjoying the attention of other women more then likely? You don’t have to be alone, but be strong enough to let go of this baggage and find real a man who will treat you as you deserve!

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Gina Landeau
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mygif
March 29th, 2010 @10:17 am  

I agree with all 3 experts below, especially Suzanne.

The fact is, NONE of your efforts have WORKED for you, have they Meena? You’ve TOLD him how you feel, you’ve ASKED him to help, you WANT him to do better, but NOTHING HAS CHANGED, has it? He’s still this macho prick that you say you HATE.

So, you now have a choice:

A) You can keep wasting your time asking for a change that won’t come
B) You can decide that YOU deserve BETTER, and end this relationship

I don’t wanna hear how “If you end it, you’ll be alone” or how you won’t be able to find a guy better than him, because that’s BS. It’s NOT HARD to find better than what you can’t stand. So don’t even START feeling that way.

The fact is, John was right about the girls @ the fitness center. Your guy is enjoying the attention, and MIGHT even be CHEATING with those girls. All the while, treating YOU like GARBAGE. So why are you staying? You’ve already learned that you CAN’T force him to be a better boyfriend. So, your only other alternative is to FIND a better boyfriend. Right? So DO it!

If he asks you why you’re breaking up with him, tell him it’s because he’s not the same guy you fell in LOVE with. And, that you’re not HAPPY anymore. Do NOT tell him that you suspect him of cheating though. You NEVER do that unless you have proof. Ever. Instead, just tell him your true reason for wanting to leave, and then leave. Wait. He’s not CRAZY though is he? I don’t know much about India, so I wouldn’t want him HURTING you if you DO try & leave.

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mygif
March 28th, 2010 @3:56 pm  

Neither of you is mature enough to have a truly adult relationship. The sooner you break it off and focus on growing up and discovering yourselves and learning to love and respect yourselves for who you are, the better.

Anthony Hernandez
http://www.theenlightenedsavage.com

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mygif
Suzanne White Montiel Said,
March 27th, 2010 @9:00 am  

Dear Meena,

Telling your boyfriend how to behave hasn’t worked, has it? Trying to talk him into being nicer to you has failed, right?

Then stop doing it. You only have control over your own behavior. Do you want to be with a guy who treats you the way he does? If yes, congratulations because you’ve got the guy.

If no, you have to move on. He’s not going to change, at least not according to your desires. You have complete control over yourself so do what you can do for yourself.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
SF Sex and Relationships Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner

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mygif
March 27th, 2010 @7:02 am  

Meena
Your boyfriend is enjoying all of the attention from the women at the fitness center. He is like a rooster with all of the hens vying for his attention. He is thinking that he can do better than you. If he refuses to talk about your feelings and do anything about it, you need to get rird of him. He is just using you now.

marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

marriagecoach1.wordpress.com blog

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