Paula Asked:
“My boyfriend and I work in the same place but in different departments so hardly see each other. Last year, months before he got with me, he got drunk and kissed his co worker on a night out and recently I’ve seen them flirting again and I’m starting to wonder if it’ll happen again. She’s married and has a terrible reputation but as she’s pretty guys are falling over themselves to flirt with her as they know of her reputation. I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend and her flirting and getting close again. We spoke about it and he told me that there’s nothing in it, he has banter with everyone and she doesn’t give him any grief and it’s not that he enjoys the attention. That worried me. He’s talking about her not giving him grief and I’m guessing he’s saying I do. I don’t want him to be going to work for an ego boost and enjoying himself with her rather than wanting to be with me that way. I’ve tried to explain to him that it worries me he’s flirting with her because of what happened before and the fact he seems to be getting closer to her after us talking about it scares me. It’s hurting me so much. If I bring it up we end up having an argument, he’ll say I have to trust him, which I try to do. Please help me. On the positive side he’s talking about holidays together next year, us going with his family on holiday and moving in together which I know means he’s serious but I wake up in the morning and think about this. I need help on getting it out of my head.”
- Paula (31, Aberdeen)
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Dear Paula,
You need to be confident in yourself and your relationship since you don’t have control over anyone but yourself.
Your jealousy is your issue, not your boyfriend’s.
Sincerely,
Suzanne White Montiel
SF Sex and Relationships Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner
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