“My boyfriend doesn’t trust me and needs time to say “I love you”. What should I do? wait or move on
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 months and I’ve never done anything to ruin his trust. I really like him, but I have a feeling that something is wrong with our relationship.
His broke up with his ex girlfriend because she cheated on him, and he was hurt very badly as he loved his ex very deeply. I think this breakup made him very insecure.
For example, when I told him he is the right person for me, he replied he said the same words to his ex and he thought she was the one. I was very upset and told him how I felt and asked him to focus on me. He apologized and said he needs time to heal as the scar is still there.
It’s already been 4 years since he and his ex broke up, I wonder how long I need to wait.
Another example, two months ago, I’ve got a male roommate. I never thought it would be a problem, as my roommate is a college kid. My boyfriend is very upset with this, and he said I may have an affair with my roommate. I am very frustrated, as he doesn’t trust me.
Except for these, he is a very good person. I can tell he cares about me. But any relationship should build upon trust.
What should I do? wait for him to regain his confidence or move on.
- Sabrina (31, Philadelphia, PA USA)
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