Comments on: Ask Our Relationship Experts: I’m afraid of asking her out again http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-im-afraid-of-asking-her-out-again.html Expert advice to get your relationships back on track Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:32:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Jason Love http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-im-afraid-of-asking-her-out-again.html/comment-page-1#comment-984 Jason Love Fri, 01 Jan 2010 03:46:52 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4519#comment-984 I'm glad you got your problem straight, Supersqwill. Good stuff indeed. Just don't go CHANGING on her! I’m glad you got your problem straight, Supersqwill. Good stuff indeed.

Just don’t go CHANGING on her!

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]]> By: Supersqwill http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-im-afraid-of-asking-her-out-again.html/comment-page-1#comment-982 Supersqwill Wed, 30 Dec 2009 08:56:54 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4519#comment-982 I wanna thank everyone who commented. After alot of thought (and akward silence LOL) I asked her out. She said yes, almost without hesitation and we are set to go ice skating followed by dinner at a local resturant as our first date. She also told me that she knew it was me who stopped the other girl and me doing that is what made her sure that I'd be a great boyfriend. Every one of the commentors helped in some way and I will definetly recommend this place to my friends. Thank u all, from both me and Veronica I wanna thank everyone who commented. After alot of thought (and akward silence LOL) I asked her out. She said yes, almost without hesitation and we are set to go ice skating followed by dinner at a local resturant as our first date. She also told me that she knew it was me who stopped the other girl and me doing that is what made her sure that I’d be a great boyfriend. Every one of the commentors helped in some way and I will definetly recommend this place to my friends. Thank u all, from both me and Veronica

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]]> By: Gina Landeau http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-im-afraid-of-asking-her-out-again.html/comment-page-1#comment-979 Gina Landeau Mon, 28 Dec 2009 17:23:42 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4519#comment-979 Hi William For being 16 you are going through a lot of drama and questions. It is very common at your age to be going through these issues. Your question should I tell her I spoke to the person who wanted to fight you and asked her to stop. It seems to me that you do have some feelings for this girl. But you are also feeling like the white knight coming to the rescue of the damsel in distress? If you have been honest with her from the beginning? Then why not tell her you intervened on her behalf so this girl would back off? Life is too short to make yourself crazy over the little things! As far as asking you her out? What are you waiting for? Do you want to wait until someone else asks her out and then you end up being the third wheel! I don't think you are left in the friends zone, but if you continue, she may never see you as anything else? Good Luck Gina Landeau Hello Ms Heartbreak, I've been expecting you! HelloMsHeartbreak@yahoo.com Hi William

For being 16 you are going through a lot of drama and questions. It is very common at your age to be going through these issues. Your question should I tell her I spoke to the person who wanted to fight you and asked her to stop. It seems to me that you do have some feelings for this girl. But you are also feeling like the white knight coming to the rescue of the damsel in distress? If you have been honest with her from the beginning? Then why not tell her you intervened on her behalf so this girl would back off? Life is too short to make yourself crazy over the little things! As far as asking you her out? What are you waiting for? Do you want to wait until someone else asks her out and then you end up being the third wheel! I don’t think you are left in the friends zone, but if you continue, she may never see you as anything else?

Good Luck

Gina Landeau
Hello Ms Heartbreak, I’ve been expecting you!

HelloMsHeartbreak@yahoo.com

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]]> By: Anthony Hernandez http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-im-afraid-of-asking-her-out-again.html/comment-page-1#comment-977 Anthony Hernandez Sat, 26 Dec 2009 18:37:41 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4519#comment-977 William, You are 16, which means you are FAR too young for both drama and for any kind of seriously committed relationship. You are, however, the perfect age to have all the fun you want, provided you do so honestly and while taking full precautions to prevent unwanted consequences of the bacterial, viral, or reproductive sorts. If you want to ask this girl out, ask! If she says no then you haven't lost a thing. In fact, you will have gained because you won't be uncertain any more. If she says yes, then you have also gained. So this is a true no-lose proposition. And while you're at it, find other female friends to pay attention to and/or go out with. The more friends you have, the better the chances you'll get lucky at some point. And, the more friends you have, the more each girl will want to go to the next level... because you'll be hot property and they will compete for your affections. The way you're going about it risks placing you in the lap dog category, which makes you vulnerable to the many games females can play such as stringing you along forever and using you. So, my young friend, either use the pair you have or strap on a new pair if needed, and ask the girl out already. If she says no, you have billions more to choose from--literally. Anthony Hernandez www.theenlightenedsavage.com William,

You are 16, which means you are FAR too young for both drama and for any kind of seriously committed relationship. You are, however, the perfect age to have all the fun you want, provided you do so honestly and while taking full precautions to prevent unwanted consequences of the bacterial, viral, or reproductive sorts.

If you want to ask this girl out, ask! If she says no then you haven’t lost a thing. In fact, you will have gained because you won’t be uncertain any more. If she says yes, then you have also gained. So this is a true no-lose proposition.

And while you’re at it, find other female friends to pay attention to and/or go out with. The more friends you have, the better the chances you’ll get lucky at some point. And, the more friends you have, the more each girl will want to go to the next level… because you’ll be hot property and they will compete for your affections. The way you’re going about it risks placing you in the lap dog category, which makes you vulnerable to the many games females can play such as stringing you along forever and using you.

So, my young friend, either use the pair you have or strap on a new pair if needed, and ask the girl out already. If she says no, you have billions more to choose from–literally.

Anthony Hernandez
http://www.theenlightenedsavage.com

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]]> By: Supersqwill http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-im-afraid-of-asking-her-out-again.html/comment-page-1#comment-975 Supersqwill Thu, 24 Dec 2009 07:24:55 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4519#comment-975 Hey, thanks for everything so far but can someone also help me decide wheather or not to tell her it was me who made the other girl not want to fight her anymore. I hesitate to because I promised her I wouldn't tell anyone about it nor would I deal with it. She takes my promises to heart so I'm afraid she'll get mad at me if she finds out that I didn't keep one. Hey, thanks for everything so far but can someone also help me decide wheather or not to tell her it was me who made the other girl not want to fight her anymore. I hesitate to because I promised her I wouldn’t tell anyone about it nor would I deal with it. She takes my promises to heart so I’m afraid she’ll get mad at me if she finds out that I didn’t keep one.

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]]> By: Suzanne White Montiel http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-im-afraid-of-asking-her-out-again.html/comment-page-1#comment-974 Suzanne White Montiel Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:08:07 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4519#comment-974 Dear William, Ask her out already. You may be in the friend zone but you won't know until you ask. She obviously likes you and values your relationship (whether as a friend or as "more") so what can it hurt to be honest with her? Go for it. Sincerely, Suzanne White Montiel http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner Dear William,

Ask her out already. You may be in the friend zone but you won’t know until you ask.

She obviously likes you and values your relationship (whether as a friend or as “more”) so what can it hurt to be honest with her?

Go for it.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner

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]]> By: John Wilder http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-im-afraid-of-asking-her-out-again.html/comment-page-1#comment-970 John Wilder Thu, 24 Dec 2009 02:55:59 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4519#comment-970 Hey William, You have gotten yourself into a trap by waiting so long. Now you fear that she might reject you and that it will hurt your friendship. Do you want to be just a friend? It is going to take you becoming a man and step up to the plate and ask her out. She is probably wondering why it has taken you so long. What is the worst that could happen, she could say no. You will undergo many relationships in your life and now is the time to jump in and be a man. Good luck marriagecoach1@yahoo.com Hey William,

You have gotten yourself into a trap by waiting so long. Now you fear that she might reject you and that it will hurt your friendship. Do you want to be just a friend? It is going to take you becoming a man and step up to the plate and ask her out. She is probably wondering why it has taken you so long.

What is the worst that could happen, she could say no. You will undergo many relationships in your life and now is the time to jump in and be a man.

Good luck

marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

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]]> By: Supersqwill http://advice.lovedetour.com/Admin/ask-our-relationship-experts-im-afraid-of-asking-her-out-again.html/comment-page-1#comment-969 Supersqwill Thu, 24 Dec 2009 01:39:39 +0000 http://advice.lovedetour.com/?p=4519#comment-969 ok, here are all my typos: i meant she "shouldn't", not "should" care what he thinks of her and i meant "texting" not "testing" sessions. sorry i typed all that on an itouch lol ok, here are all my typos: i meant she “shouldn’t”, not “should” care what he thinks of her and i meant “texting” not “testing” sessions. sorry i typed all that on an itouch lol

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