I wanna thank everyone who commented. After alot of thought (and akward silence LOL) I asked her out. She said yes, almost without hesitation and we are set to go ice skating followed by dinner at a local resturant as our first date. She also told me that she knew it was me who stopped the other girl and me doing that is what made her sure that I’d be a great boyfriend. Every one of the commentors helped in some way and I will definetly recommend this place to my friends. Thank u all, from both me and Veronica

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William,

You are 16, which means you are FAR too young for both drama and for any kind of seriously committed relationship. You are, however, the perfect age to have all the fun you want, provided you do so honestly and while taking full precautions to prevent unwanted consequences of the bacterial, viral, or reproductive sorts.

If you want to ask this girl out, ask! If she says no then you haven’t lost a thing. In fact, you will have gained because you won’t be uncertain any more. If she says yes, then you have also gained. So this is a true no-lose proposition.

And while you’re at it, find other female friends to pay attention to and/or go out with. The more friends you have, the better the chances you’ll get lucky at some point. And, the more friends you have, the more each girl will want to go to the next level… because you’ll be hot property and they will compete for your affections. The way you’re going about it risks placing you in the lap dog category, which makes you vulnerable to the many games females can play such as stringing you along forever and using you.

So, my young friend, either use the pair you have or strap on a new pair if needed, and ask the girl out already. If she says no, you have billions more to choose from–literally.

Anthony Hernandez
http://www.theenlightenedsavage.com

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Dear William,

Ask her out already. You may be in the friend zone but you won’t know until you ask.

She obviously likes you and values your relationship (whether as a friend or as “more”) so what can it hurt to be honest with her?

Go for it.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner

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ok, here are all my typos: i meant she “shouldn’t”, not “should” care what he thinks of her and i meant “texting” not “testing” sessions. sorry i typed all that on an itouch lol

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