Confused more than ever Asked:
“Well I met a boy this summer during a trip to Europe that our school took. We clicked and have become insperable since. We text and talk to each other everyday and hang out almost every weekend with each other. However, he has a girlfriend, they’ve been dating for 3 months exactly. And even though he has a girlfriend I am starting to fall for him hard. Every person who has seen us together has thought that we are dating and sadly I have to deny it and say we’re just friends. He seems to be in love with his girlfriend completeley, and even though I’ve known him for a shorter amount of time than she has, every part of my brain is telling me that we should be together. Friends keep coming up to me and telling me that we would be perfect together. He is my best friend and I am his, but I want more than just friendship, but if being friends is the only way I can be by him then I’m happy just to be friends. I just don’t know what to do anymore. HELP!!!”
- Confused more than ever(19)
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Dear Confused,
I understand where you are in this situation. The best thing to do is tell him how you feel about him, but be very respectful of his current relationship. Right now the best thing to be is his friend, that is one thing you don’t want to destroy if there is ever going to be a chance for the two of you. But you do not want to come in between him and his current girlfriend. If he leaves her for you, then he may just do the same to you. “whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.” Galations 6:7 – When you tell him how you feel one of two things will happen; either he will reciprocate your affections or he will let you know that he isn’t interested in being more than friends. At least you will know where you stand and he will know how you feel about him. Don’t carry that extra burden around with you, be brave. “To be brave is to love someone unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. To just give. That takes courage, because we don’t want to fall on our faces or leave ourselves open to hurt.” – Madonna – I hope this helps, keep me posted. God bless!
Cinique Scott
Cinique.Scott@yahoo.com
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