Ria Asked:
“I Broke off with my boyfriend an year back as he moved abroad for his studies and moreover he said he was getting very serious for me but was sure that we cannot have a future as our families would never approve our relationship. Just after our break up he nearly begged to be friends with him. We decided to be friends. After two months he himself told me that he was in a relationship with some other girl and that was also a long distance relationship.
We were in continuous contact after that. We even met once after that and we kind got intimate in that meeting(intimacy of not a very high degree). I told him that I was not over him. He said he was thinking about me but he also accepted the fact that he was in a relationship with some other girl and called it a “sin” to think about me.
We continued as friends after that and we are still in contact.
He often calls me and if i dont take the call he calls me like 9-10 times in one
go. In our last conversation he said that he is very happy with the relationship we share and gets upset when he thinks about the past.
I STILL MISS HIM AND I LOVE HIM ALOT.
BUT I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT HE THINKS ABOUT ME. I WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AGAIN. WHAT DO I DO? PLEASE HELP!!”
- Ria (20, India)
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Ria,
Unfortunately darling, there isn’t much you can do accept guard yourself from getting hurt. Just a word of advice though, anyone that is willing to dip out on their relationship to fool around with you, will do it to you. Even if his intentions are admirable you should be careful. With that said, sounds like you both genuinely care for one another, so the distance is the only thing posing a problem. You noted that your parents won’t approve of your relationship like they had some type of control on who you fall in love with and live your life loving. Don’t let their approval stop you. If you want him, tell him and don’t play games. Be as bold, honest and aggressive toward him as you can, (men find that appealing). In the wild, it is the lioness that does the hunting, not the lion. I hope this helps. God bless.
Cinique Scott
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