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September 30th, 2013 @9:32 pm  

Hi. I think she gets the gist that you had some secrets about being with someone else, confessed and just let the rest go at this point. It is not necessary to tell her if you want to keep seeing her and are not looking for a way out, so to speak. Sometimes we can subconsciously sabotage ourselves etc. But if you really want to continue, keep it to yourself.


Robbie Lee-author, mentor, realist

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September 28th, 2013 @2:56 pm  

Hey He:
You sound as immature as you are. You need to turn this girl loose and develop some character and ethics. Sex is not something to do lightly or to use women for your own purposes. It should be about a deep personal comitment.

I am sick to death of young men using women for sex selfishly. I tell women not to give a guy sex unless and until they are in a committed monogamous relationship and I tell you the same thing. That means not getting some on the side because you can.

John Wilder sex and relationship blog

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
September 27th, 2013 @8:42 pm  

Hey He,

Now is as good as time as any to learn that no one – not your parents, your siblings, your significant other(s), your priest, your doctor, your therapist, or anyone else – needs to know absolutely everything about you. Everyone is entitled to his or her personal privacy.

Not disclosing absolutely everything about you is not lying, it’s keeping to yourself what isn’t necessary to disclose to anyone.

Also, I’m not sure why it’s such a big deal that you had sex with someone other than your current girlfriend before she was your girlfriend.


Suzanne White Montiel

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