Dimitar Asked:
“Hello!
There is that girl that used to work near my flat. We met in front of my home and in a few days, I could easily go to her and talk about whatever. In general, she keeps her distance with new people, especially guys, because there are always a few of them around her, trying to get into her panties, and she is definitely not the easy type. Nevertheless, she opened up to me quite quickly and I could see that she enjoyed the time we were having together (which was not much). I liked her from day one, but was very careful not to fall into her ‘friend zone’, in which a lot of guys have tragically fallen, trying to do the abovementioned thing by being too kind and available to her. Having this in mind, I made myself clear from the very beginning that I do not have and don’t want to have any female friends (I put this in our first conversation, very casually and in a funny way, citing my favorite comedian – Chris Rock). She shook her head unapprovingly, but smiling. So, I spent two workdays with her (separated by one day), sitting with her in her shop (or outside), talking and laughing, drinking coffee and smoking cigarettes. This was the first two times that we actually talked; we were getting to know each other. The second time, I told her that we should go out some day and she agreed. She told me she’s going to the sea for three days and after that, we would arrange something. When she came back, she was sick with some summer-flu virus. I brought up the thing about going out and she said: ‘Yeah, I know, just wait until I get better’. I was going on a vacation in Greece for 20+ days, but didn’t know exactly when. Ultimately, I departed, without having the chance to go out with her.
In the meantime, I’ve come to know her sister, who also worked at the same shop. I initiated her into my ‘secret’ and made her my collaborator and informant. Normally, I wouldn’t do that – that’s fourth-graders’ stuff. But the girl I like is quite elusive – she works a second job where she gives long night and day watches and when she isn’t at the shop, she normally sleeps and rests at home. So, I approached her sister and won it to my cause. She didn’t blow my cover, I’m sure.
The night before my departure, I did another thing that I wouldn’t normally do, but, again, I thought I can do it this time. I had written her a poem, but…before you say “How can you be so reckless, you dumb”"
- Dimitar (24, Plovdiv, Bulgaria)
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I truly appreciate the response from you. It truly encourages us all to hear the triumphs our advice can have in people lives. I truly will pray that all your hearts desires be fulfilled so your joy will be full, lacking nothing. If you want to talk a bit more or have any more questions for me, you can email me at: Cinique.Scott@yahoo.com – I would be obliged to see you through any storm you travel THROUGH (there is always light, after the storm). May God keep and bless you thoroughly.
Cinique Scott
Cinique.Scott@yahoo.com
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