Bob Asked:
“my question is that i love this one girl but she is of a different culture, i am indian and my parents are really traditional and want me to get an arranged marriage, i really dont think this is best for me, the girl i love is african and i want to be with her and hopefully get marriaged to her, but she doesn’t want me to disobey my parents she wants there acceptance, what do i do please help me.”
- Bob (19)
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Bob,
Whoa…this is definitely a sticky situation. So let me get this straight, you and your girlfriend want to honor your parents and their traditions, yet you both are reluctant to honor yourselves and what your hearts are obviously telling you. “It is better to be hated for what you are, than to be loved for what you are not.” – Andre Gide – Hmmm….the only way to help you is to tell you what I would do in this situation. I would respectfully tell them how I felt and what I wanted to do. I would introduce them to my future wife and ask for their blessings. Only one of two things will happen. Either they will love you anyway and accept who you have chosen as wife with open arms or they will not like your decision but still love you anyway because they know that there is not much they can do to change a made up mind. I hope this helps, keep me posted. God Bless!
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