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September 30th, 2013 @9:37 pm  


sounds like a difficult situation. it would be one thing if you were not on the brink of being repulsed by him touching and kissing you. Stop being with him physically and just be friends. If he cares for you enough that will be enough. Focus on finding another place to live. I am sure you can find a room to rent somewhere or a studio if you have an income. Sounds like you have been living there 2 years past your break up and should have been saving some money if you are working. if you are not working, you will have to get a job etc.

good luck.

Robbie Lee-author, mentor, realist

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September 28th, 2013 @2:51 pm  

Dear Shay:
You get no sympathy from me. You are a user. You use him for a place to live leading him to believe that he has a chance with you and to make it worse you actually have sex with him even though you don’t like him. How does that not make you essentially a prostitute for a roof over your head?

Develop some ethics and move out.

John Wilder

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
September 27th, 2013 @8:10 pm  

Dear Shay,

You need to find your own place to live. Living with your ex and his mother clearly isn’t the best situation. It’s not even close to a good situation.

Move out so you don’t have to deal with your ex. Until you do, you will feel obligated to deal with your ex – the person you can barely stand – by letting him be affectionate with you – something that you can barely stand.


Suzanne White Montiel

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