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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
February 19th, 2010 @9:00 pm  

Dear Carlos,

Please don’t think that your naivete about relationships and human nature makes it appropriate to treat women with disrespect or to shower them with inappropriate words, as some of my fellow experts may do.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
SF Sex and Relationships Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner

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Suzanne White Montiel Said,
February 19th, 2010 @8:53 pm  

Dear Carlos,

You’ll never know. People in healthy, adult relationships have a certain amount of faith in their partners. Doesn’t seem like you have any faith in her – whether justified or not – and it doesn’t seem like she has faith in you.

MOVE ON. And get over measuring someone’s devotion – your own or your mate’s – based on the monetary value of gifts given or received.

Sincerely,

Suzanne White Montiel
SF Sex and Relationships Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/x-14163-SF-Sex-and-Relationships-Examiner

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February 19th, 2010 @8:21 pm  

Ok. I’m going to be honest with you.

I think we all pretty much agree, that she’s using you. HOWEVER, that DOESN’T mean you can simply “get over her” just like THAT! So, I’m gonna ask you a few things:

#1: You say you two were BROKEN UP while she was “sleeping around” right?

Now, it may be “slutty behavior” as you call it, but it’s NOT CHEATING.

#2: Why are you guys breaking up and getting back together so often anyway?

#3: *****HERE’S THE WAY TO TEST HER*****

The next time she tries to come back, just say “Here! Here’s a thousand dollars. Now, we don’t have to be together. You can just take the money.”

If she says “No, no. I don’t CARE about the money. I just want YOU!” Then TEST her by saying “Okay. If that’s REALLY TRUE, then don’t ask me for a DIME of my money. We’ll be together, but treat me like I’m a regular guy with limited income. If I can AFFORD to buy you something, I will. But most of the time, I won’t. And if you truly love me, it shouldn’t matter HOW much money I have.”

Then say:

“So those are your choices. You can take the money right now and run, or you can be with me and barely get ANY money. Which one do you want?”

Wait for her decision. And by her answer, her words, her body language, etc. You’ll be able to tell what her TRUE motives are.

If you need more help, or wish to ask for my advice on a regular basis, email me:

JayTheAdviceMan@aol.com

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February 19th, 2010 @7:43 pm  

You have to be kidding right. You can’t see through this little tramp. You made a deal with the devil, you went with arm candy to prove your worth. The arm candy traded sex for money to prove her worth to herself.

You need to get some self confidence and for sure dump this broad and let her land with some other sucker. I agree with Mr. Hernandez which I normally don’t, you need to learn to love and respect yourself and demand it from your relationships.

marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

marriagecoach1.wordpress.com blog

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February 19th, 2010 @6:16 pm  

Carlos,

She doesn’t love you, you don’t love her, and to top it all off you don’t even love yourself enough to realize that the answer to your question is blindingly obvious. The bottom line is that you will never find a truly loving relationship unless and until you learn to love yourself… and you have a LONG way to go. Stop wasting your time with this middle-school drama and start becoming the adult you’re old to be.

Anthony Hernandez
http://www.theenlightenedsavage.com

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