Idaman Asked:
“i am having relationship for one year now with guy and were having problems with sex and also understanding each other, he seems never like to change his way and his ego and dont want to tell what he’s like in relationship. for i am really stressed. he is also always angry and always used the same reason to blame. i think we close to ending…but i still try to hold. he told me, if i dont like him, i can leave, seems like he doesn’t care anymore with this relationship….but he did mention he loves me and difficult for him to be normal and he is also thinking about our good future together, like having nice life and nice house together…..i am so confuse…what can i do?”
- Idaman (Male, 36)
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I say give him a wake up call, no not that kind of wake up call, though that’ll make him happy. Anyway, people are stubborn and won’t change their ways and will tell you this is who I am love it or leave it. Well, then two can play at this game, but from reading what you wrote, I have a feeling you don’t like playing games and neither do I. A lot of people do play games in relationships, so we’re forced to get onto their level. You obviously cater to him more than he does to you, so flip that around and don’t cater to him. He thinks that he has you wrapped around his finger so show him you’re not. Don’t go see other people or say you’re leaving him, just play it cool and do what you want when you want and see how he responds. He may wake up immediately realizing he’s losing you or it may take time and say it’s over, but he’ll be the one picking up the phone and hanging before dialing your entire number or starting a text and canceling it. Check his Facebook status he’ll drop hints that he’s miserable. If he doesn’t react then do you really want to live this way the rest of your life with him? Lastly, the first thing you mentioned was problems with sex and later you stated that he’s angry…try to work in some angry sex for the time being.
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