Expert advice to get your relationships back on track
2010
Beckie Asked:“My friend got advice that helped her on here and told me to try.
My boyfriend ignored me and thought i was uncool at school and now he says he loves me, i said yes but i think its only a joke?’
- Beckie (14)
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Beckie, darling…what exactly is your question? I’d like to help, but you have to be a little more descriptive and a little more specific. However, at this age boys tend to be wide open and girls tend to be naïve. Don’t be naïve. I hope this helps. God Bless.
Cinique Scott
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Hi Beckie
Not much info here…at 14 you both have alot of things to learn.I wouldn’t put much faith into his words if he can only say them in private? Ceratinly you have the choice and voice to decide what you will and will not put up with? Why waste your time on someone who doesn’t have a clue? Don’t tie yourself down with this boy, there is too much for you to experience…don’t be in such a rush to grow up and experience love…experience life instead…
Good Luck
Gina Landeau
Hello Ms Heartbreak, I’ve been expecting you!
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Dear Beckie,
If someone loves you, they show it all the time. Regardless of your age, you should expect and require that you be treated with respect. Most importantly, you need to have self-respect. Having self-respect means not allowing anyone to mistreat you. If your boyfriend isn’t proud of you and doesn’t treat you with the respect you deserve, he doesn’t deserve to be your boyfriend.
Best,
Shela Dean
Relationship Coach, Speaker & Author
http://www.ShelaDean.com
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Beckie,
I agree with John. If your boyfriend is only 14 as while, you both have a lot of life to live and need to focus on maturing. Let him know if he loves you then he can say it and show it at school not behind closes doors.
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Beckie:
You are really too young to worry about these things. Boys at your age are very immature and flighty. It is not unusual for a boy to pretend not to know you in school and be all interested in you in private. You have to decide if you are willing to put up with this immature behavior in order to have a boyfriend.
Blessings on you and yours
John Wilder
marriagecoach1.wordpress.com blog
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Becky,
I know you hear this all the time but it is so true. You are so young and have your whole life ahead of you. You shouldnt be worring about a boyfriend or who does or doesnt love you. Just be you and take the time to figure out just who that is. Usually you wind up dating at your age and the boy is insecure and controlling and starts telling you what you can do who you can talk to. And you really do not need that. Focus on school and friends and being fourteen and living life. love will come but not untill you know who you are and what you want and what you deserve. Good luck and be carefull some guys will tell you whatever you want to hear to get what they want. Ok good luck and Gods speed
C.J
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