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2008
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November 9th, 2009 @7:17 pm
You should be dating girls your own age. You also need to remember that right now, college should be your full time job. This is your future that we are talking about. If you screw that up, you won’t be able to support a wife and kids or a full time girlfriend.
The 30 year old was happy to hang out because a 21 year old is interested in her and for her I am sure that the sex was great. I am sure that is was good for you as well, but take my word for it, at this age, a 9 year age difference is way too much difference. She can’t respect you as a man because she is more mature than you are. That is why you were having so many fights while you were living together.
Get back to your education and forget the 30 year old. Find a girl your own age. Best Wishes
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November 9th, 2009 @7:11 pm
Your girlfriend is very immature. She is also insecure. She is afraid of someone else taking you away from her because she lacks security in herself and her ability to hold a man. This is why she reacts so jealous when you are around other women.
She is talking to other men to reassure herself that she is desirable to other men. This is not a problem that you can fix.
You are better off to let her mature for a while. In the mean time live your life and have fun.
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Dear cinfused hurt and Sad:
It is terrible to feel emotionally whipsawed and get very mixed signals. What you need to do is do exactly what she said, give her space.
This woman is a single mother who is working full time to take care of her kids. She has been single for 9 uears. She gets lonely and needs a little affection so she takes a time out and uses a guy for some hugs and kisses, attention and affection. Is it fair to you, no.
If you have any hope of having anything with her (and I would suggest that you don’t, past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior) you need to just leave her alone and see what happens. Kissing and hugging is not a promise of forever or even exclusiivity. I know that message is hard to hear but you need to hear it and get comfortable with it. I am sorry, lonliness is everything that it is cracked up to be.
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