He Asked:

“My wife shares our problems with old guy friends and she leaves the house with clothes packed and will call me later to say she is staying with her girlfriend or mom. She jumps when her sons father calls and she has the nerve to get mad at me when she has a moment I dont want to be bothered. Im fed up and am I wrong to think she is cheating whether it to be physically or socially? I feel I am 3rd on her priority list, behind her, her son then me. You cant live in my house when i pay bills, clean, etc and think im gonna sit back with this bs…”

- He (42)

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Odutola Asked:

“I have a close friend for like 7years whom i like very much she acts like she likes me to date me but keeps saying she not ready for a relationship because of some family issues she going through and she keeps telling me to find some one else that her brain not ready for relationship at all yest she keeps getting close to me and sharing things my whole family knows her face because she comes over a lot of times please what should i do give her time or wipe my mind of her totally.”

- Odutola (26, Lagos Nigeria)

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Pay Asked:

“Im 13 years old and a girl and am going out with a 16 year old boy.I met him throught my best friend. Iv slept in the same bed with him. (thats all we did sleep together no sex) and im in love with him. You may belive im too young to be in love but trust me. This is love. The second my parents found out we werent allowed to see eachother ever again. hes been my boyfriend since August 2010 by secret and my parents just found out we were going out again. The only way we can see eachother is behind my parents back. I wanna be able to see him. He recently gave me a promise ring, and graduates in 2013. He promised to stay in the state with me and next year we willbe in high school so there is no way my parents can keep us fully apart. I want to know what to do. I love him so much and he loves me. Why cant my parents just understand that.”

- Pay (13, GA)

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Heartbroken Asked:

“Going to say now I’m sorry for any typos. Anyways I met this guy named Jason He is 21 years old and I’m 16. We had never met and we only got to find each other over him randomly requesting me on Facebook. Ever since we have been really close and he would frequently help me with my problems and id help with his. Every since we met we always talked about how we would be together when I turned 18. So we would talk about the future, nothing crazy like kid names or anything, bu it was always about how I would save myself for him and he’d wait for me to turn 18. He got me hooked on this band called Angels and Airwaves. He was always tell me about the new song that I had to listen to. He would tell me how pretty I was about how he dreamed about being able to hold me kiss me and lay wih me all night. Yes sometimes we got out of touch but we always managed to find a way back. He was always easy to talk to and someone I began to decide my life had to be with, I thought my future was set to be wih Jason. We were in another period where we weren’t talking as much because an ex boyfriend of mine found out about how I had plans to be with Jason and about how I was planing to go to college around where he lived to be closer to him. The college has everything I need including Jason near by. Tonight I just saw he was in a relationship with another girl. It also showed she just got it of another relationship on her Facebook page. Yes I had to admit I havhad boyfriends while me and Jason talked about our futures but a relationship in high school doesn’t last A long and isn’t as serious as a relationship when it older than 20. What do I do?”

- Heartbroken (16, Sykesville)

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Madhu Asked:

“i broke up with my bf a year ago. He is in love with other girl too. So i left him. He is my first love.. After him i couldn’t accept anyone. Now he is contacting me with no reason. This keeps me smiling n happy. I know he is still with her, this makes me feel guilty. I don’t know what to do?”

- Madhu (19, TN)

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Oli Asked:

“how to get over lying and cheating, I just can’t stop!

I have been dating my ex for 4 years. it’s always been lol rough with daily arguments and jealousy seens. I truly loved her so we got engaged and I even came to US with her. While here I cought her 3 times trying to cheat but ultimately forgave her, finally she went over board and I had to move out a year ago.

It was really tough hahaha:) I was acting like clingy, deppendent and insecure, but soon started dating. With in One year I dated more than 30 girl, and damn I was on fire, Internet bar party friends, you name it, and so a pain started to go away ( I sound like a looser already lol ) but anyhow I made it.

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Kenneth Asked:

“I have been on and off with my girlfriend for a year the first night we met we had sex she didn’t tell me at the time she was married and going through a divorce he used to beat on her and cheat on her she has a very bad attitude and curses a lot and when I decide to leave she always begs me to come back and I do based of the sex she always accuses me and she has done things to my vehicle after I said I was done and wouldn’t answer the phone sometimes she can be real nice but when she starts to hang around a certain friend she likes to show out she has two kids and she tells them to call me daddy ? And she keeps pressuring me to marry her what should i do ?”

- Kenneth (25)

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Bill Asked:

“my wife is moving out with the kids. she just signed a 1yr least to rent a house. she says she hates me dose not love me any more.but i still turn her on very much.she dose not want any one at all if she is horny she will come to me .she is gone to be 37 .i just turn 40 we have been twogether 20 yrs 3 childern.give her here space and see what happens she told. should i give up.”

- Bill (40, West Haven, CT)

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Anonomys Asked:

“There is a guy that i like alot, but he seems very strange around me. When he likes a girl he will make a move, but he treats me different. He is always willing to help anyone with anything, but when i ask him he will have an excuse to help me. When i give him a compliment he will get angry and refuse to take it. When we are with our friends and any girl washes dishes he will help them, but with me he will never help. Do i make him uncomfortable, or why is he treating me like i mean nothing? I try not to make it obvious i like him, but why is he a jerk to me?”

- Anonomys (23)

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Ervin Asked:

“I’ve known this girl for awhile now, for about 5-6 mnths.. About a month ago I asked her out (date to eat) but she said she didnt have time cause of school (she’s in dental hygiene school and a program too n during tests n finals) and that she didn’t wana be in a relationship cause it would be a distraction, so she didn’t want that. I said it’s fine and I understand. So we kept talking texting (we talk/text like everyday rite now) and we hung out (movie, eat, n started running together). She told me when are we going to start running. So she done with her semester now…We went clubbing and we had a great time. So I decided to ask her out “again” but this time I told her that I wana take it to the next step and would like for her to be my GF. She said Im a cool guy, she likes hanging out with me talking wit me, n she having fun getting to know me. She has fun when were together but rite now she wants to focus on school (semester is done) n feels like having BF would be a distraction, she knows how she gets when she has a bf. She said she would understand if i didnt want to talk to her hang out anymore. Were still talking non stop tho. We went christmas shopping and on one she invited me. Does she like me? Is there any chance that we could be more than friends? Whats really her problem.”

- Ervin (23)

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