The most important thing you need to ask yourself first is, “am I happy with my weight?” If the answer is yes, then you probably do not need to read any further. However, since this article caught your eye, I would imagine the answer is “No.”

This question is one that many women ask themselves when they start gaining weight. Does he still love me? On the surface this is a very simple question with a very simple answer…of course he still loves you. The problem is that whether he “Loves” you still may not be the only question you should be asking.

First let me discuss some of the rules of attraction as they relate to both men and women.

For women, the emotional and physical parts of a relationship are very much interlaced with one another. This is the reason romance novels exist. Women become aroused by romance, exotic encounters, and heart felt gestures more than they do than visual stimuli. Often times a woman will not become intimate with a man unless she is either experiencing or hoping for an emotional bond. As a result, it is common for a man who becomes somewhat heavier or who provides a less than amazing sex life to be allowed to compensate with an amazing personality and kindness.

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Sharron Asked:

“Ive been having an on-off relationship with this guy for years, 5 to be precise – we left our spouses for each other but I couldn’t leave my kids and move in with him like he wanted so we have lived separately, this he was not happy with and vented his anger at me not doing as I promised by accusing me of seeing other men, especially the ex-husband I left for him (my son still lived with his dad, so there needed to be some contact), accusing me of listening to other people and being to weak to do what other people do when they leave husbands/wives. We never fought when we were together, that was always great, he was loving and attentive, it was always by text when I had to leave and go home or if I had something on with my children. I expected this way of living coz I loved him but recently he has backed off from me, given very mixed signals – will ask me for saucy pics, to spend the night with him, then ignore me completely, tell me its over and that someone else is interested in him, then he will ask for pics and to spend time with me again. I dont think he has been out with anyone else yet but he has told me this about 6 times, usually the day after we have slept together. I have told him to change his phone number if he means it when he says he doesn’t want me anymore, but he wont, he wont tell me he doesn’t love me anymore and won’t confirm he is seeing someone else, just that someone is interested. If I get my mind set that I wont contact him again and I leave it – he contacts me, either pretending he has miss txt’d his daughter or asking for pics etc. I love the guy but I at a loss what to do – I don’t want to lose him but I cant keep doing this can i?”

- Sharron41, Beverley, England)

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S Asked:

“I met my current girlfriend in January in Florida. She is in her early 50s and lives in New England and since I took frequent trips to New York I visited her at her home on 2 occasions for a week. We had amazing chemistry and after I left the 2nd time we were both upset about being apart. I returned a few weeks later for a 2 week trip. We had an incredible time again and we were both extremely happy. I packed my bags and prepared for my flight back to Florida, but when I looked into her teary eyes I couldn’t go. I skipped my flight and I have been staying with her ever since. I am financially independent and have been living and traveling abroad for several years so I can re-locate anywhere.

We are incredibly happy. Every day is joyful from the time we wake up from the time we go to bed. We garden together, cooks meals, go hiking, see musicals in NYC, and just enjoy each other’s company no matter what we are doing.

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Rishi Asked:

“hello Sir,
I want to know whether my ex girlfriend still love me or not.recently she is in love with other guy but I want to know whether it is just attraction or she really love him.somtimes I feel that my ex gf will come back.can you help me with this.
thanks”

- Rishi (25, India)

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Milano Asked:

“So here is the deal, I’ve been in love with a girl not my first, I’ve been married had children and a length of experience in many relationships but this is only the 2nd time I felt so strongly about someone, well until she started doing things that I allow me to feel threatened in our relationship. Now I’ve had some jealousy issues before when i was married but i know it was my fault. So now I’m wondering am i at fault or am i with a woman whose just not for me.

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Mighty Asked:

“me & my boyfriend both of us r divorcees…he lives with his family and i live with my kids & i also dnt want expose my relationship to my boys…sometimes i take a risk to meet him at his family house in the night which is risky becoz of our culture and society here….he is a nice person but i am anoyed with this situation and how do i express myself and tell him to get another place where we can meet and spend time peacefully …he also financially supports his kids who r away from him …he says he loves me and wants to have future with me so i dont know what to tell him ???”

- Mighty (40, Kuwait)

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So the intimacy of the relationship has faded, and once your hormones settled you realized your partner is not really what you want. Maybe they have some annoying habits you didn’t realize at first, or maybe you desire more in common than just the bedroom escapades that were originally the foundation of your relationship. Or have you been in a long term relationship and it has finally run its course? Either way, for some reason you really cared about this person, and although it’s over you still agree to be friends….

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“If a thought of the past is holding you back; leave it there.”

LoVe,

LuCy

Our minds, as extremely intelligent as they are; can play tricks on us.

We have the ability to change our lives, in all areas, simply by using our thoughts to create change.

But just as much as we have this power, we can take all the power away when we start thinking too deeply about things that may have deeply hurt us; believing that this will always still be the case.

It is a difficult task to move forward when we have lurking thoughts that are not helping us grow, as we grow up in our success- whether professionally, or personally.

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He Asked:

“I was dating this girl ashley for a couple months before I got locked up for 2 months. When I got out, she had decided not to date for a year. We still talk, and live in different cities and its hard to see each other at the moment. Today she called drunk and told me how much she missed me, wanted to see me, and her roommate was tired of her talking bout me.
She said shed spent the night at this guys house, and will tonight also. Idk if they’re just friends or not. He works at the resturaunt next to the one she works at. She goes there every tuesday night with friends and drinks. Its getting to me, but I can’t let her know that. I need help. Got any advice for me, please?”

- He (24)

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Ryan Asked:

“She is 34 I’m 44. She was sexually abused by her brother.Parents didn’t believe her ran away from home. Broke up 2nd time in 2 yrs.recently said I was uncaring in my words. 1st break she said if I left her alone shed never have come back. This time she said leave me b. We stayed friend 4 mos. after B/U then suddenly cut contact.Her Mom and she herself said no new guys.

I was fine and actually glad for B/U. Till she cut all contact for no reason after 4 mos. I don’t get it. I then went nuts asked her to marry me, whatever it took I would fix it. She said to little to late.And now a friend of mine says he wants to stay friends w/her, seems wrong to me. Thanks”

- Ryan (46, Naples Fl)

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