I love the story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden and its usage of great metaphors. It’s a story that can be taken away by anyone for its moral value regardless of your religious beliefs.  It’s a story about a man and woman who were made for each other and loved one another. Adam and Eve had innocence. Both shared their lives together before guilt and sin became a part of their daily lives. There they were exuding purity in its highest form. They were nude metaphorically as well as literally. Then one day, they were told about the forbidden fruit from the Tree of Knowledge and were warned that that very fruit was something they needed to reject.

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About 8 months ago I began an internet connection with 2 ladies; that I was interested in from a personals website. We began our contact, when I sent a virtual kiss, they responded and an email marathon was born. I wrote a story called “The Internet Connection, Fate or Fantasy Pt 1” back in April and here is the conclusion to that story. Many have tried the internet with various degrees of success, I have been fortunate enough to have met some lovely ladies even if it did not lead to romance. The contact with the 2 ladies on the west coast and the connection we made was both immediate and intriguing.

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Danielle tries to move in

Nate seems like the marrying kind a guy. He draws girls that want to marry, like mosquitoes to a sweaty fat man. Nate doesn’t want to get married but he keeps getting stuck. The most recent girl was an adorable schoolteacher. They met at Nate’s birthday party, where he broke up with his girl friend and slept with her the same night. Oops… (I told him not to do that) I also told Nate to be careful with this one since she seemed really needy. Nate ignored me and dove head long into constant dinners and nightly sex. In under a week he had a new girlfriend. The relationship came to a skidding stop when Nate decided he wanted to buy another car. Nate said, “I think I’m gonna do it, I really like that truck.” Danielle, all smiles and cling said, “That’s great! You can drive that and I can drive your Tahoe!” “What do you mean?” said Nate. “You know… when I move in… I can sell my car and just drive yours.” The silence extended for about 20 seconds while it sunk in to both of them that they had radically different expectations for their relationship. Things ended shortly after.

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Karstens Asked:

“there is a guy i’ve known for not quite 2 years that i share a fairly deep friendship with. we met through our older brothers, who are good friends, and school activities. i really like him but am not sure whether love is the right word because i’ve never had feelings like this before. he has a girlfriend that he’s been with for a couple of years, so i don’t want to make a move and ruin the relationship. what can i do?”

- karstens (U.S.)

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Kully Asked:

“I met this girl 3 years ago and we seem to have hit it off the first time we met each other. After a few months she began to drift away from me, but me i fell for her in a big way. She made me her friend and i have to accept that or lose her, everyday i dream about her and i know if she finds someone else i will not want to live. I have offered her everything a girl can wish for but she says we can only be friends. What gets me is that she cooks for me and invites me around and we hug each other and do kiss, but not a deep kiss just pecks here and there. I love her so much its effecting my job now, what should i do? she is my soul mate.”

- Kully(U.K.)

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Stormymind Asked:

“I am so lost and do not know what to do. I used to be an extremely confident and happy man with my whole life ahead of me. I was working in my field of study while in college and living the good life. I was an independent thinker and wanted to travel the world while working. I had dreams and goals.

I started dating my best friend’s cousin, who just got out of a 5 year relationship. She lived with the guy and was “engaged” to him…she says she did it to please her family. I was technically the second real boyfriend she had. Things were wonderful and she fell deeply in love. she would come over all the time and even told my mother that she loved me more than she ever loved the other guy…and this was after 3 months!

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Dysfunctional is defined by www.merriam-webster.com as abnormal or unhealthy interpersonal behavior or interaction; this behavior can be with a group or individual. I can honestly say I have had my share of dysfunctional relationships, both intimate and non-intimate. Humans engage in dysfunction for many reasons I am sure. Based on my own experience and research, I find the specific dysfunctional behavior stems from what life experiences individuals were exposed to during early childhood years. If you weren’t loved and cared for properly or if you were overexposed to violence, anger, and mayhem, it is likely that you have unresolved issues that will carry into your adult relationships. It is possible that you find someone broken in just the way that fits how you are broken. For example, if you have abandonment issues, it is likely you will pick someone who will abandon you and you will act a certain way in that relationship. If your parents were always criticizing you, you will most likely pick people who treat you poorly because you feel you are not worthy of someone better.

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As the years progressed, I found it no easier to know how to talk to or treat women. A friend of mine, Lisandria, decided to show me the secret to women. She would teach me how to talk, treat, and understand what a woman expects of me. One afternoon, Lisandria introduced me to her best friend by the name of Tanico, which would open the door to new opportunities. Tanico was a special kind of woman, but in first meeting her, she tended to get on my nerves. She would always try to bring me down telling me, “You aren’t all that. You think you look so good.” The phrase, “I look good” never came out of my mouth. Maybe she thought my appearance was nice and began the art of “hatricity.” It amazes me that people treat others like this just by looking at them. Why she would say that or why others would say that to me in the future was always a mystery.

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Say “pick-up line” and you might think of drunken frat boys with white baseball hats or sketchy guys in shiny shirts. While both examples certainly have gotten the most press, I humbly submit that the reviled pick-up line, besides being an excellent joke for the object of your affection to share with friends later, can at the very least ease tension when approaching someone who interests you. Notice I say “someone”; women (straight or lesbian) and gay men can use pick-up lines with aplomb, just as straight men can.

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