My good friend Lacy is so cool. She has her shit together in so many ways. She is a single mother raising a sweet little two year old daughter. Unfortunately Lacy has a problem, she is upside down, in other words her money in does not equal money out. Lacy feels trapped in her situation, she feels that she can not jeopardize her current income because she has a daughter relying on her. She also believes she cannot lower her expenses because she has a daughter relying on her! She is in a downward financial spiral and like so many other women she toys with the idea of meeting a rich man to pull her out of her financial nightmare. I know Lacy can change her situation on her own but that is for a self help blog! So Lacy asked me just the other day. “Mike, if you are so good at the guy and relationship stuff. Teach me how to meet a rich guy!” “hmmm…” said I raising one concerned eyebrow.

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(In the last installment, Eric was standing on the porch lost in his thoughts as normal, when he was interrupted with a tap on the shoulder. He turns to notice that it is the person for whom he has shared time with. The breeze softly blows as Eric turns to see who awakes him from another unconscious dream).

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So you finally do it. You commit to one person. Congratulations. Let the honeymoon begin!! When I say commitment, it can be anything from marriage, to exclusive, to moving in, etc.; it’s whatever you and your partner decides is a “commitment” and how you define it. Regardless of how you define your commitment, it still affects you in a way that would not have, had you not committed. It requires so much more than the non-committed. Do not kid yourself nor become overly full of dreamy thoughts like the relationships depicted on the big screen. You may experience a bit of that during the “honeymoon” stage, but other than that, it requires attention and care that you would give any other aspect of your life. If you want to be a great mechanic or a great doctor, it takes time, attention, practice, and skill. So does being a good boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife or partner.

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Holiday season, a moment where most children’s dreams come true. The night of Christmas eve, where they place cookies and milk on a table, with hopes and prayers that Santa will visit their home and give them the presents they’ve been wishing for. Since the time most Americans understand the words their parents and loved ones utter, the man known as Santa Claus, always tends to become a household name. Children and are taught to believe that if they behave properly by listening to their parents and getting good grades in school, Santa will bless them with illustrious gifts.

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(Lost in his thoughts yet again, Eric stands in the corner of the porch creating the story from where he left off in his office. The blanket of darkness has come upon him, and shields him from the new comers to the party as well as those who are already there. The porch light shines just enough to show those who are coming the image of someone from his waist down. Cars move slowly up and down the street to avoid autos that are parked along the way, curious as to what is happening. Cheryl is leaving and decided to throw a little gathering to thank her friends; however, Eric doesn’t feel comfortable because of their past relationship and how people still gossip about the two of them sneaking around even though she is involved with Jeff. Cheryl and Eric are friends; yet, they can only truly deal with one another one on one to curb the gossip. Besides Eric has always been attracted to Mariah.

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After reading parts 1 and 2 of this series, you are aware that it’s important to build sexual tension with women, and I discussed how to do that. Now, I want to give you some pointers on what to do when you actually are ready to make the move. Let’s get right to it.

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Dan Asked:

“So I’ve met this wonderful girl online last week, and starting on Monday have been talking to her everyday online since then. I’ve even managed to meet her in person, take her out over the weekend on a couple dates, and brought her over to my dorm for a make out session, but here’s the kicker….

We met on campus and now it’s winter break and she went home which is over 2 hours away from me. I’ve been talking to her over the net since being home but she has told me she hasn’t been out yet cuz her friends aren’t back, making me think when her friends are back she might not talk to me anymore. Plus she hasn’t mentioned anything about starting a relationship with me.

I really like her a lot and I wanna be her boyfriend but I’m not sure if I should ask now. I’m afraid she might meet someone back home, so I’ve even thought about driving out to meet her, and would ask her then to be my girlfriend. I’ve read that I should wait for her to ask me? I don’t know what to do and time is slipping away, any advice would be greatly appreciated.”

- Dan

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As the day fades, and evening takes shape, she glances at me with the face of a woman who is tired. Tired of the same things and ready to be treated the way a princess should be treated. I’m just a simple man with simple thoughts in her eyes. In my mind, this is how she sees me. Life has a way of making you forget your dreams, goals, and those ideas that get us through the weeks. Seems as if life has dealt her a blow or maybe she is just simple. All she wants is to be happy, secure in life, taken care of emotionally, mentally and physically. Each day I’ve tried to read her mind, searching for her desires. She seems happy; yet, a bit unsatisfied. However, either way, I can’t wrap my thoughts around the answer. She doesn’t really know me, but I know her. We have a special undefined relationship. Our time or tenure will be coming to an end soon in this beautiful setting as soon as she walks away. Of course the setting lies in my mind, not in reality. I try to become one with her mind and her desires; yet, I fall short each time.

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